Guys, what do you consider to be a "real" woman - someone who sleeps around / with anyone who says hi or one with standards & self-respect/esteem?

[Anonymous]

It's an interesting question. They're both technically women.

However, what is a "real" woman to you? By real I mean someone that you can see being a lasting girlfriend, potential wife, someone you'd be proud to show to your friends & family.

Option A
Someone who dresses revealingly, sleeps with just anyone who shows them a bit of attention; who usually has little to no self-respect or esteem and that's why behave as do

Option B
Someone who doesn't dress revealingly, who doesn't sleep with just anyone who shows them a bit of attention; who usually has self-respect or esteem hence behaves differently

Option A - Dresses Revealing, Sleeps with Whoever shows them attention, typically lacks in self esteem / respect

Option B - Does NOT Dress Revealing, Does NOT Sleep with Whoever shows them attention, typically has self esteem / respect

[Anonymous]

A real woman to me is someone who brings more to the table than just her looks. She’s there for me, gives me attention. Trust in me to do what’s right for the family. Not that I don’t consult w her when there’s major decisions, but at times I do make a lot of decisions on my own but she knows I mean well as far as what’s best for us as a family. Someone who can cook, who can take care of the house but willingly wants to. Not cause I say she has to. Which is what I have had for the last 15 years. I work a lot of OT. She always takes care of me as far as my work uniforms, food for work, the house, the dogs. The kids at one time but they are all grown up now. I on the other hand take care of the house, repairs, the yard, the bills, money for groceries, etc. Most men want a girl who is submissive, we don’t mean that in a bad way either. A lot of women tend to think it means we want a slave. No we want someone who again can trust us, to trust your life to be in our hands. Men don’t want a career woman, there may be a few exceptions but that’s not what men really want. You can say I’m being mean for saying such a thing but it’s true. Men don’t care about a woman’s career or her money. Women on the other hand, not all but a lot care about how much money a man makes. Which I can see from a positive side as well as negative. Positive being she wants to know you will be ok as a couple if she gets pregnant to take care of a family once you have kids. Assuming she will quit working for an X a month of time. Negative in the sense of gold diggers.

[MCheetah]

To me, a "real woman" (as in, a lady and someone worthy to marry, as long as you have a pren-up) has standards & self-respect/esteem but ALSO treats others with respect and isn't stuck-up, entitled, spoiled, or has an ego. Many women nowadays get the "high self-esteem" and "has standards" part right, but fail on the "treats others with respect and not a stuck-up b*tch" part completely wrong.

Having standards & self-respect/esteem isn't enough; you have to also not be a sh*tty person or treat others, especially men, like complete trash or walking ATMs, too. The messed up thing is, it's not even asking for a whole lot, either!

[Berethor]

Light feminine and dark feminine trope, light is ladylike, while hos can't be trusted.

[Anonymous]

i have yet to see a woman do option B