My ex and I broke up 3 months ago and he blocked me on WhatsApp, then on Instagram. now he unblocked me on WhatsApp but doesn’t say anything. WHY?

[Anonymous]

(He uses WhatsApp just with me. And it takes you steps to unblock someone. It was not an accident. He checks it randomly).

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+1 y

He broke up with me

[Anonymous]

Maybe because his anger issue is going now and he wants to keep you unblocked in case you message him.. it’s like he doesn’t mind if you reach at him

[Asker]

And then he would take all the steps to unblock me all of a sudden for nothing? Lol. And even check to see if I’m online or if I sent something?

[Asker]

His ego is very big. He is waiting for me to contact him first. He’s done that thing many time in the past during no contact to tease me of contacting him first

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I don’t know how you feel about messaging him. But I think that’s anger issue let’s say if he gets angry again he will block you again.. and so on
I even had an ex like this! He would block me and then unblock me view my story but not message either. I was confused I remember back then I did say “ hi” to him we spoke again for a while but than things got bad again

[Opinion Owner]

It’s been 2 years now that I got over it

[Opinion Owner]

If you like the guy it’s painful so it’s up to you if you want to contact him now.. but if you isn’t like him then it’s better you move on it will be easier

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t like him *

[Asker]

I’m happy you got over it. That’s the hardest thing to do. I’m really glad for you… ❤️ And yes, that’s the problem! I do like him. I actually love him! Read the other reply I answered giving more details… Maybe it will make you understand it better… But I will not contact him this year… If so, just next year…

[Opinion Owner]

The mom situation can he beneficial for you. If you love him honestly it’s ok to try again. Don’t be hard on yourself and be in pain because you don’t know what to do message him or not. If you want you can wait a few more days see if he will contact you if not then you can send a message more like a “ kind follow up “ how are you doing recently?” Smth like this. But also be careful if he rejects again don’t be sad because who cares his loss not yours.

[Asker]

Thank you, my friend! ❤️

[seni951]

Think it might be a stalking thing?

[Asker]

Well, but there is nothing to be stalked on WhatsApp. He doesn’t even watch to its status. It’s basically a chat app like IMessage.

[seni951]

Oh I have no idea. I would just forget about it who broke up with who?

[Asker]

He broke up with me. Now unblocked me all of a sudden 5 days ago

[seni951]

Hmmm maybe he thinks he knows what he is missing now. Maybe he messed up and trying to figure a way to talk to you

[Asker]

Hmm… Right… Mainly after his mom became my friend now. (She didn’t know me before. Bc he was planning of introducing me to her but didn't. And I contacted her after our break up saying that he was depressed, for her to take care of him as I couldn’t. And we ended up on being friends. Now she loves me. She says that she has been thinking of I go and stay at her house as friends and that she would talk to him. (She told me that yesterday). He unblocked me days before it. Now that he sees that his mom likes me, you’re probably right, he was probably afraid of her not accepting it and now he sees that it was a childish mistake from his part and sees what he is missing out now.

[seni951]

That's what I think. Good luck miss take care ❤️

[Asker]

Thank you, my sweet friend! ❤️

[seni951]

Oh if you ever need a foot massage hit me up 😂😂😂

[Asker]

Hahaha

[seni951]

Sorry my foot fetish gets the best of me

[Danny_dan92]

Lingering sentiments

[Asker]

Yes, you’re right; both sides ❤️

[Danny_dan92]

Uh huh

[Asker]

Thank you, friend ❤️

[Danny_dan92]

You’re welcome friend!! ❤️