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Thank you, my friend! ❤️ And, I got curious about how your female friend changed her boyfriend after 6 break ups! Lol. Well, maybe in person and living closer I’ll be able to put that man on the right way! Lolol 😂
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In my opinion it's childish to block someone, I regret it every time I do it and realize how childish it was. I'm not saying he wants to get back together with you because I don't really know what's going on In his head but maybe it's him saying sorry for blocking you without saying sorry. Do you want to get back together with him?
Yes lol. We are now living far overseas. His mother sent me a message saying that she would talk to him to see if he would be ok with me staying in her house with us being friends and not lovers. Tho I think we would come back even before I get there I person if it happens lol. I think he wants me to reach out first but his ego is just too big. And I won’t do that bc I’ve always been the first one to reach out in the past during no contact. I’m giving myself some self respect this time. The only person I talk to is his mom as a friend bc his actions are not his fault. He is an ADULT. But yes, I do wish to come back. And he unblocked me in an app which he just uses to talk to me (WhatsApp). There are no posts there so I only think that he wants to talk but his ego is so big that he is waiting for ME to reach out
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If you want to get back together with him then do it. But his ego might be a problem you could think of it this way, if he really cares than he would be the first one to reach out to you and apologize and say he was wrong. Did he break up with you? What was the reason for the break up?
The problem is that his mom probably told him I saw that he unblocked me… Bc he went online right on the day I asked her about it… If he had mentioned anything to her… So his ego probably grew bigger and now he is for sure waiting for me to reach out. Yes, it was him who broke up. The break up was bc he said that he was not feeling it anymore but really, he has said that before and broke up with me before. His mom and I talked about him being on depression and she agreed with me that he’s been depressed. I think that the main reason was bc of the temporary distance as I’m finishing college, expensive flight tickets, no physical touch from me to him as a man and etc. Bc, really, if he didn’t like me, he wouldn’t break up and come back before over 3 times. And neither unblock me in an app where we wouldn’t post anything but talk as it’s better for long distance. So I think that the main reason is the distance, depression and no physical touch
I think of moving closer once I’m done with college in the end of the next year…
I'm sorry to say it but I don't think you should give hive another chance. He is never going to change. You are never going to change him. He is the way he is. I know a girl that left her boyfriend 6 times and she gives him another chance every time. A woman fantasy is basically the Beauty and the beast story but in that story she changed him. You can say the same thing for Fifty Shades of Grey He was a monster that was tained by a woman. But those are just movies people rarely change there habits in real life. I'm sorry if it sounds mean but don't waist your youth for this guy. Your graduating college soon you have a good life a head of you. Find someone with less baggage and problems. Find someone less childish and petty that will give you the love that you deserve.
I wish you the best
Maybe in person and living closer I’ll be able to change that man! Lolol. 😂 (And with his mom’s help as she probably likes me and support our relationship), otherwise she wouldn’t suggest me to stay at her house as “friends”, lolol!
Thank you, my friend! 🥰❤️