I told my friend about a guy who’s been smiling and hitting on me at the gym and she was like “he probably does that to everyone.” Is she jealous?

[Anonymous]

She’s always minimizing a guy’s interest towards me.

[Finchie40]

She isn’t a friend , she is a toxic friend , something you girl’s should really pay attention to if you are in a relationship with a guy , toxic friends can cause a lot of drama in your relationship , why it’s important to never prioritize a friend over your partner , Most girls don’t understand that concept and then take it out on their man that he is insecure and jealous when really he isn’t , he just c’s a piece of shit girl trying to ruin your relationship with him , a true friend will support your relationship , support you and be happy for you , not make you feel bad or jealous that someone likes you , My word advice is end that friendship with that girl , she has issues

[Crazy_Girl1992]

She doesn't sound like a real friend. Any friend who minimizes how you feel then they aren't a real friend. If a friend said something like that to me I would ask about the guy.

[watercolor_lions]

She sounds jealous to be honest. Does she minimize you a lot? Or ever playfully insult you?

[Asker]

Yeah once I said something about how I don’t like my nose and then she said I can get a non surgical nose job, then said something about my bump on my nose. My nose is honestly pretty normal by the way lol

[watercolor_lions]

She might not be a real friend then. That doesn't sound very kind.

[Asker]

She tells me I need to expect more from men I date and criticizes my interactions with them, usually which ar harmless. But fails to tell me about bad behavior she’s permitted from guys.

[watercolor_lions]

Are you questioning if you wanna stay friends?

[Asker]

I’m very skinny and sometimes I think she might be jealous of my body type but I don't know. She looks great as is and I try to be encouraging fo my friends back.

[Asker]

I’m questioning my evaluation of people lately. Like when I take a good look everyone seems kinda fake and untrustworthy.

[watercolor_lions]

They might be. I'm pretty picky about who I call "friend".

[Asker]

Like once I was going through a very hard time in my life where I lost my job due to an illegal reason from the company and couldn’t find a new job and needed a lawyer. I was tired all the time from it and people just asked me nosy questions and used my difficult time as a conversation topic/entertainment.

[watercolor_lions]

It sounds like you don't have a lot of good people in your life. I'm sorry 😞

[Anonymous]

Yes, I think your hunch is correct.