I decided to be alone for the rest of my life. All men are liar and scam artist?

Question

have you felt this way?

SamK20 · Accepted Answer

I'm not a liar or a scam artist.

Oh.. all the liars and scammers said that too?

Well.. um.. if you at least give me a chance then you'll see that I'm honest and genuine.. Oh.., they pretended to be honest and that their actions aligned with their words only to reveal their true colors to you later?

I definitely understand, and I'm so sorry you had to meet those guys, but I'm not like them, you're welcome to observe me and hold me to all of my words and you'll see that I'm genuinely their polar opposite... Oh..

.. you're not even going to give me a chance? You're done with men? But..., I'm disgusting? Get away from you? Ok.. I'm.. sorry for wasting your time.

Unfortunately this legacy that our evil counterparts leave behind for us is a reality that genuinely good men face in their various forms and situations far too often, they put on the mask and parade around as one of us, leaving a trail of distraught and destroyed women behind them, they steal and annihilate the hearts of the women we think about while we're working our butts off, saving ourselves for the one, molding ourselves into the men we know that we must be and relentlessly battling demons that we hope you never have to hear of...,

then one day we go out in search of a woman we can cherish and love, provide for and protect with our lives, and we see the trail, the wreckage that our brothers left after taking what they wanted by any means necessary, and we wish that we were there sooner, we think about what the world might've been like had we been the ones who got there first. Because it's not just the women that they've harmed, it's our remaining brothers, and the children, our world.
But do we give up? Do we quit? No, we never give up, and we never quit, we make a promise to ourselves and the world around us to relentlessly battle against the evil in this world, to protect and defend those who can't defend themselves.

To be, the stronger man.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

When you only go for guys out of your league, they aren't going to respect you or care about you, and they're just going to use you for sex (or whatever else they can get from you). And if you complain or become a hassle to them, they're going to dump you and call one of the 500 other women in their phone and replace you the same day.

Watch the first 90 seconds of this video:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/WkyVDodSxlU

This is a woman saying this, not a guy.

If you want to be alone forever, hey, that's fine. But you don't get to accuse ALL men of something bad because you went after top guys who have a million options and they didn't treat you well - those guys aren't at all representative of the majority.

I make a decent living, but if I went to a Ferrari dealership, or an airplane manufacturer, or a yacht manufacturer, and wasted a bunch of their time only for them to find out I don't make anywhere remotely close to enough to buy one of their products, they're not exactly going to treat me nicely either. That's what happens when you shop outside of your price range.

You could get a good guy and have a great relationship, but he's not going to be Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth, and he's not going to be a multi-millionaire. If that's what you want, then you might as well stay single and not waste anyone's time. But if you humble yourself and realize you aren't 22 and a supermodel, and you went for a guy on your own level, you could have success.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yep. I decided the same thing years ago and have not even talked to a guy in that way since. Don’t miss it either.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

No, but I still think you should probably stay alone as well.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, I’m in a healthy relationship with a man who is far from a liar and a con artist. Sorry that’s the only men you’ve experienced but that doesn’t mean they’re all like that.

teamvic · Answer

Then become lesbian, you might find they aren't much different

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

I think that is a wonderful idea for you to do & thank you for doing us the favor.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I feel similar: Each woman on this planet is frustrated and inaccessible because of her personal bad experiences. :D

Anonymous · Answer

Lol good luck w that. I’m pretty sure it was the other way around, no options so rather than make it feel like you’re the problem you decided to blame all men.

inhua · Answer

that decision was already made for you before you decided to be alone

Avcfhcic · Answer

I think I'll be alone because I'm not attractive and no girls go for personality alone

LiamJHayden · Answer

Blaming "all" for the actions of an infinitesimally small sample size is common, but rather unfair to the multitudes who did nothing wrong.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Obviously not all of them... Maybe you can be more picky about the people you welcome in your life 🤷‍♂️...

Anonymous · Answer

I started to feel that way, but then I met my husband and that changed everything.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I'm not either of those things.

Anonymous · Answer

This is probably best for everyone. 🙂

Jack0ff779 · Answer

Women are too

jimmy2 · Answer

Oh not all

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