Why is my cousin so hung up on this guy for the last 4 years?

[Anonymous]

he's never invited her to back to his house she just thinks hanging out with him means he likes her. How can I tell her to stop wasting her life at 42 years old on this guy

[devilish-cutie]

I wouldn't get too involved in others business like that. If she is 42 she knows enough, its her life to waste it if she wants to. Besides, its nto that easy to find someone you're really into. You may say to her that to you it seems that he doesn't have serious intentions and you dont want her to get hurt. And that it, all you say and let her do whatever. You did your part, you worn her.

[Asker]

It's been 5 years and she moans that she constantly that she's never been married... I think your right you just can't help people like that

[Guy13]

Wow, she is by lost in some kind of fantasy love. That must be brutal to watch. What can anyone do in this dynamic.