Why would a guy have a soft spot for a girl who gives him a hard time and is a bit unstable?

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t like her but even when she says bad things and has anger outburst / anger… puts up with it.. why?

[Berethor]

Double standard: abuse, female on male trope, some guys are very tolerant of girls.

[Wiredone]

Because he likes her and he's trying to get to the soft side of the girl

[Asker]

But he doesn’t like her and she is soft but she is also very angry

[Wiredone]

Did he say he doesn't like her? Did he mean it or is he trying to hide his feelings

[Asker]

He said in the beginning he wasn’t looking for a relationship

It’s a long story lol

We stopped talking a couple months ago.

[Wiredone]

Not looking for a relationship and not liking someone is totally different.

[Asker]

Well if he really liked me we would still be talking

It’s complicated. Maybe he just had empathy but no actual feelings I don't know

[Wiredone]

It's hard to say not knowing the full story

[Asker]

He’s in a relationship now

[exitseven]

It is hard to describe this but sometimes even though somebody is irritating and hard to deal with you could still like them.

[Wiredone]

I couldn't say it better.

[Anonymous]

Is this about me?

LOL

[Asker]

Lol It’s about us both I’m guessing

[Opinion Owner]

How so?👀
How is it about you? Yet you are talking about a different girl

[Asker]

No I’m talking about me but talking in different person lol

Sorry for the confusion

[Opinion Owner]

Okay I was going to say you can have him lol

[spartan55]

Oh my...

[Asker]

I think I needed to re ask it

Sound better? 😁

[spartan55]

Sounds the same

[Asker]

Ohh whoops