Hi. Please give your opinion. So that i can move on. It hurts my feeling and my mental health. h
This one guy, we're work colleague, kinda work partner. He's alr has a girlfriend, all knew that when he first came to ur office, he told us he has a girlfriend. I didn't have a crush on him before, slightly not, he's not even my type and he's ugly. Then about 3 months ago, he getting close to me. He loves to ask me to go dinner with him, hanging out together, pick up and drop me off. But at first i reject his offer coz i respect his relationship. Then after couple times he asked me. So i accept his offer for the sake we're friend and colleague. Its not wrong right? We went for dinner couple times, coffee, hanging out, keep treating me food and sweet drink. He insists to pay but i transfer him back my bill. Sometimes i let he pay. Then he started flirting with me, give attention, caring, act gentleman, sweet, treat me expensive stuff. He treats me like his girlfriend tho. Then i get attached. I started to like him. He gave me mix signals and i get confused. He loves to show me sign he likes me. I don't know. And this feeling really hurts me all the time coz sometime i get jealous with his girlfriend.. And my work performance has drop because of this! I will not confess, im not the selfish one!! Will not ruin others relationship. Pity his girlfriend. So what I am gonna do now? I want to move on with this shit but i can't because we met everyday and he keeps give me attention.
