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It’s like he pierced through his soul for 5 seconds while standing 4/5 feet across.
what does that mean? He did that and walked away. The other guy looked for a sec.. but I don't know if he noticed or not.
also the guy doing the staring is talking to someone but they aren’t in a relationship
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It truly means nothing lol people make eye contact sometimes, it happens.
A guy giving another guy a deep 5 sec death stare is not normal eye contact
It’s five seconds not five minutes, not even one minute or 50 seconds. People lock eyes, it happens. But my guess is that you really want it to mean more because there’s no other reason for you to try making something out of nothing.
If you say so lol
And honestly I can see why. You want some sort of jealousy over you to happen and this isn’t that.
No that’s the last thing I want. It’s a turn off
Oh good, then it really shouldn’t matter in any case that one looked at the other for 5 seconds.
It was just so evident that’s all. His whole demeanor changed
Evident of what? What could you have possibly gotten in the 5 seconds one looked at the other? There’s no good reason for one to death stare the other when neither of them were or are in a relationship with you. This isn’t a case of the bitter ex lol
And to be clear I am in no way trying to shame you or make you feel any sort of way, I don’t know you personally and wouldn’t judge you to that degree, that’s not what I’m here for. I just think you are taking a simple situation and making it more because of who these two men are. From an outside perspective, it’s really nothing.
But if someone had shown attraction towards you and you haven’t really reciprocated interest back then… I can see if he did feel that way a bit
Maybe, but such a quick instance is not enough to insinuate jealousy or anything like that. If it were a longer stare or something more provoking then sure but I don’t get that from this situation. To also claim it’s a death stare may not be accurate as it was not long enough. On top of that, if he was trying to intimidate who you were with it would take more than that. Maybe looking at him repeatedly trying to get his attention or something like that.
Yeah he did it and walked away
Also bc of where we were he couldn’t really “make a scene”
Why would he make a scene? I genuinely think you’re in your own head. If you disagree then that’s fine but it also shows you’re really trying to turn those 5 seconds into much more than it was.
Not literally but I’m saying he prob wouldn’t want it to be noticeable
Why would he be so up in arms about you with another man when he’s moved on from you and with someone else? Be logical here.
I wasn’t aware about him talking to someone tho
He’s the one who was flirty / showed attraction towards me. I’ve never paid attention to him so that’s on him
They were not together
Even if it’s not a relationship he’s moved on to someone else. You keep saying “was”, but the past isn’t relevant to the present in this instance. I’d just let it go if I were you. I don't know what you believe he felt in those few moments but you’ve moved on and so has he. I don't know if you still like him or what but maybe that’s another bridge to cross if you do.
I was just curious. Tbh
I haven’t seen him in months. He is in a happy relationship so no I don’t plan on taking any action
He also flirted with a friend of mine so I thought he was just a flirt
If this was months ago, why are you still talking about it like it’s present time? He’s moved on, has a girlfriend.. are you having trouble moving on or finding someone? I’m just not sure why you’d hang on to a 5 second interaction from months ago.
But that was not the only thing like I just shared one small piece
Why am I still talking about it? Cause I can and want to
Of course you can, no ones saying you can’t. The thing is why? He’s moved on, you should too. But if you prefer to be hung up on a 5 second interaction with him instead then that’s your very odd choice.
Maybe
Just trying to get over another guy. That’s all.
I feel really hurt and want to feel desired/valued.
That’s essentially what I was trying to say earlier because I figured it was your intention with this post. I know this kind of shit is rough, especially during the holidays but you’ve gotta keep pushing forward. Posts like this do nothing to bring closure or make you feel good. He’s moved on and happy, you deserve the same. Focus on that rather than picking apart moments like this, it’s a waste of your time. Value yourself, love yourself, you don’t need it from him or no one else.
Thank you. I needed to hear that🙏
No worries girl, hang in there, this stage doesn’t last forever🙏
You’re right,
He was a friends with benefits anyway
Exactly! Not a loss whatsoever. It helps to keep that in mind whenever you feel like you’re having a hard time with the situation.
He's probably jealous.
But he is talking to someone so..
I don’t see how he could be jealous
So he can't be jealous if he is talking to someone? Uhhh... sure he can.
@spartan55 why? It doesn’t make sense
Hypothetically speaking
It makes perfect sense, why does talking to someone eliminate jealousy?
@spartan55 I don't know can you explain? If he’s talking to someone else.. he shouldn’t be jealous …
…. You there?
I agree, he shouldn't be, but he is. Some guys have this weird territorial thing going on. Just ignore him.