If a guy is soft before we do business?

[Anonymous]

Is it a bad sign if the guy I'm talking to is always soft when we 1st meet up? I would say he is attracted to me and we are even friends but I don't know.. Someone told me if that's the case, he's not that interested, and he should be hard as soon as he sees you. Any advice men? Ty

[SnowedIn]

Like, when he first takes off his clothes or when, like he walks in the door? Sometimes he may take a minute to get hard -- that's not necessarily a bad thing. But, if like, you're naked in bed or on the couch and there's nothing then yeah, that might be worth getting looked at.

[Asker]

Oh yeah before we start anything and he's unzipping his pants it's soft still. But during that doesn't happen.

[SnowedIn]

So, he gets hard and has sex with you? Then I don't see a problem. I can get naked and start making out and then get hard. It's not always drop your pants and at full mast.

[Asker]

Oh well why is that? Wouldn't you be hard immediately if your with someone you like

[SnowedIn]

Sometimes yes. Other times it's actually a measure of the comfort and intimacy and familiarity to be able to take your clothes off and make out, cuddle, etc. and begin that getting hard/wet process.

[spartan55]

Where do you girls get these crazy myths? So he can't get hard at all?

[Wise4myage]

Only if that happens every time, which it seems is the case.🙃

[Wise4myage]

He should see a doctor.

[Asker]

Yeah it is. But then why would he try to do it again if he doesn't like me, and why would he say he misses me and all these things

[Wise4myage]

He does like you, he just has erection issues.

[In_Trance]

Stop listening to other people and focus on what's important

[TadCurious]

That's not a bad sign or abnormal at first meetup.

[FunkyMonkee]

You mean, his dick?