I had a response typed out, but realized @siren777 said it better than I could. If I was in your place I'd feel the same way (as anyone would).
The first question that came to my mind reading this was his past relationship. 4yrs ended 5 months ago... is he really over her/it like he thinks he is? And maybe this is proof he's not? Depending on that relationship. How good it was? Why did it end? Who ended it? etc. I'd want to know all about that because he may very well not be fully over that and as "ready" as he thinks he is to move on? Every person and relationship is different, but I had only an 8 month relationship with a woman (and not even a true relationship), and it took me years to get over. I'm not sure I'm even completely over it yet and it's been 5 years. She's left permanent trust issues I think there for me. I know I can't bring that into potential new relationships, it's not fair to the other person, but they are there for me. My baggage for sure. So maybe he's not as ready to move on as he thinks he is?
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He is a sweet talker. It's hard to say if he will be honest with you as his actions are contradictory. It seems like physical relationships / sexual chemistry... Take a step back and see how it goes if you want to take things slow with him but remember that if you can't control your emotions for him then its best to leave as he can just tell you that he wanted to take things slow, you're moving to fast (however he could use your body? Talk about double standards) he will only break your heart and leave you and say but I told you I wanted to take things slow while using sweet talk (which can be lies, who knows?) Lots of people get their heart broken and come out of long term relationships but even if he wanted to take things slow he wouldn't want to lead you on so fast with his words. Don't trust words, love... People can lie.
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You're just a use n throw girl for him...
Wow.
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