Do guys experience Jealousy?

[Rosexøxø]

I need to know ASAP.

Guys, do you ever get jealous?

And if you don’t want to include yourself in the mix do guys generally get jealous in general?

Okay Go!

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Yes! It’s not just girls

Nah breh! We’re a team of titans- a circus of clowns- a band of rough riders!

I don't know anything atm._.

Just young guys

Just the ego/low confident guys

What is jealousy?

Other

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This may seem basic/obvious and not even sure if it’s been asked, but I need a direct answer.

Honestly lol

No society stuff, just your opinions 👐

[Blackmoonsns]

No jealous he's a sign of insecurity meaning you don't trust your partner and you see yourself as less than other men so it's stemming from poor self-confidence if I find out my girlfriend or my wife is cheating or talking to other men when she should be talking to me then I say Good riddance she's not good enough for me

[Juxtapose]

Of course we get jealous! If we really want somebody or something and somebody else is threatening that? Jealousy is a response to combat that.

[Rosexøxø]

I love it! Not the misfortune lol but this RESPONSE. This is MHO 👐 Thankyou!

[Juxtapose]

Thank you too! I do my best to be realistic.

[Rosexøxø]

I like that 👐😊

[Summeroflove]

Obviously plenty of men feel jealousy as well. Depending on the situation many times it’s unwarranted.

Just because someone found someone amazing. Don’t take it as something bad. Be happy for them and know there is probably someone for you.

Jealousy because your ex moved on…. Not your girlfriend or boyfriend anymore not your business. They can’t be single forever either.

Now when jealousy is warranted is if there is cheating going on. If your partner is intentionally flirting with someone else. The list goes on and on.

But just because your partner has a friend of the opposite sex and you trust your partner and know nothing is going on. Seriously who really cares

[Rosexøxø]

I like this. I think this deserves mho as well. You really capture the truth here. 👐

[Summeroflove]

Thanks! I can have honorary MHO lol

[Summeroflove]

You used to be able to pick more but you can’t do that anymore

[NathanDavis]

yes, I have... once

it was during college years... and before my girlfriend was my girlfriend, and this other guy was making her have a great time and she was laughing and cracking up and it was a genuine one too!!

like she was actually enjoying that talk they had outside the classroom, lol

so, I was like, how dare you... how dare you make her have such a great time when it should be ME!! doing that, lol

but you know, she was not my girlfriend, we were just friends, and I had not done anything for the situation to be otherwise, so I guess I just realized that someone else would just "get to her" while I did nothing

other than that... I have not felt jealous because it is not in my nature

[Rosexøxø]

Thank you! Thanks a bunch! 🙏

[Andres77]

It’s a fluid situation.

its a mix of where I am on the self esteem ladder and my own confidence and her intentions.

the goal is, no. Reality is, sometimes.

[Rosexøxø]

Nice perspective. I’d share this same outlook in all honesty ☝️👀

[DesiUwU]

they do, they really do. i have guy friends who are jealous of other guys when we're not even dating, and it gets really ugly sometimes. Jealousy isn't a good thing if it's extreme.

[Rosexøxø]

Sometimes it’s nice to know they care 🥲😂 are you able to calm them down? Or is that their own like rage thing

[DesiUwU]

they usually get over it or bring it back up later. ugh.

[Rosexøxø]

Lmao I just wonder if when these things happen is it a direct play on their reputation or is it a threat on something they care for, yk?

I was only lucky once to experience a guy get jealous over me in highschool, but that was just so long ago. I still remember it, so you’re kind of lucky to have that sometimes 😂, but at the core of male reasoning/logic, I wonder if it’s about THEM in those scenarios or the WHO that they want or care about.

What do you think? 🤔👀

[DesiUwU]

it's not even a sometimes thing, and sometimes it can get ugly to the point they hurt another person or even me

[Rosexøxø]

Ouch 🤕 okay I think I’ll stick to peace and quiet lmao

[DesiUwU]

yeah it's better to have a guy with a normal amount of jealousy

[Akam93]

If they do they sure dont show it. Then again my former crush flipped off my husband just because I said I love having sex out loud. And my former crush finds me beautiful and doesn't get a lot from his own wife.

[Rosexøxø]

Interesting! And righttt I don’t see it and I need to know. Helps a lot in what I’m researching! Thank you for this testimonial 🙏

#LifeSaver

[U4ea0]

Sexual jealousy is universal amongst men. A man who does not get jealous has no feelings for you.

[Rosexøxø]

I think this deserved MHO I love the truth in that. Do you think he can withhold from jealousy if he trusts she won’t be fucked by anyone but him, even if other guys flirt with her or so?

[U4ea0]

It is true. This is why poems relationships are a load of shit. If a man agrees to that, he does not love his wife anymore. Simple as that.

[msc545]

I used to when I was younger, but I no longer care enough to bother.

[Rosexøxø]

Thank you! Thanks bunches! 🙏

[exitseven]

guys get jealous. I have been known to do it too.

[Rosexøxø]

Does it quickly subside?

[exitseven]

Not for me

[Rosexøxø]

Sorry about it 💪🤕

[exitseven]

I have not been jealous in a very long time.

[Rosexøxø]

Cheers to that! 😂😄

[Rosexøxø]

I will ignore the fact I just went through two moods in sympathizing with your comments 😂😂

[exitseven]

Are you jealous about something?

[Rosexøxø]

Me personally? Nooo 👀 my heart raced for anyone to ever assume that. I’m far from it tbh.

I think I get jealous with people I loathe. I don’t really loathe anyone but one person on and off in my personal life. As long as I break the engaging circle with that person, I’ll be free from that experience.

[DavidRaul]

Yes i did as a teen when i was like 14. Maybe it was the hormones but now i am content

[Rosexøxø]

Interesting. Hmmmm you oddly just gave me a new idea for a question.

Thanks for this!

[DavidRaul]

Your welcome

[ThatguyDon]

Never jealous if you are with the right one for you. It's called trust.

[Rosexøxø]

I like this. Maybe confidence and trust combat this, then?

[ChiTown33]

Guys are human. Why would you think we don't?

[Rosexøxø]

Because guys are usually seen being so chill and even with the prospects of a lady some will not always want to resort to defense or so. Like a full on fight is last resort, so if that were the case I’d wonder if they also learn to avoid or become indifferent to it

[ChiTown33]

Well first off just because guys don't show it so obviously doesn't mean we don't feel it. Also guys are judged on both sides of the coin for the emotions we do show. So there's good reason to keep it under wraps. But here's probably the best way to understand men. We show as little emotion as we do typically because if you don't know what we're feeling you cannot or at least are less likely to manipulate or feelings effectively.

[Rosexøxø]

That’s understandable. I think I’d follow this logic as well. Also just to mention just because women are allowed to express it doesn’t mean they’re always provided with a well intentioned person or people they COULD share that with.

BUT not to put it on women.

Do you think men struggle with containing and engaging jealousy? Or do women struggle with it more?

Men are technical thinkers along with these unwanted emotions. Do you think that helps it to be less consuming for you all?

Or do you think it’s worse for men because it’s suppressed?

Is it suppressed if men are coping with outdoor activity?

Or does the activity help with the anger

But never addressed what was felt? 🤔

[ChiTown33]

I think we're lifetime learners. I think jealousy like most things you just get better at dealing with it. There are very few things that make me jealous because I know who I am and what I deserve at my age.
I think it's an age thing and being content in yourself. Not as much a gender thing. Though i think women due to thier emotional nature are probably a little more prone to jealousy.
I'm very zen about stuff like this though. Nothing really gets me too up or too down because I simply won't let it. People who cause to much negative emotions in me I cut out of my life.

[Rosexøxø]

I like that last sentence. No need to torture ourselves with annoying people with literally 8 billion out there.

Many good ones too.

Thanks for this response and I’m glad you’ve matured in this and realized what it was for yourself. 💪🤓

[bowenw]

I can get jealous.

[Rosexøxø]

Thank You!! This is MAJORLY helpful 💪

[bowenw]

😊😊

[call_me_scar]

Yeah buts how u handle it that matters

[Rosexøxø]

That is very wise words. I’d have to agree 100%

[Rosexøxø]

*Those are ☝️🤕😂

[call_me_scar]

Indeed, I would correct my type o, but na

[Rosexøxø]

Ikr sometimes I’m like why bother /: lmao

[LiamJHayden]

Some are, some aren't.

[LiamJHayden]

Jealous, I mean.

[Rosexøxø]

That’s a pretty logical and fair statement.

[bigpauly]

Yea. We’re not so different, after all.

[Rosexøxø]

Interesting you should say that.

That’s been the thought of the day these last couple days 🤔👀

[bigpauly]

Maybe we don’t have to fear one another any longer 🤔

[Rosexøxø]

🥺 awee imagine that was the case and then that’s how it turned out

[Rosexøxø]

Gosh I hope no one is fearful of each other. That would be the saddest thing 😭

We’ll be okay 🤧🤧👍

[bigpauly]

Haha yea it would be.

[Kelly6]

guys get jealous too

[loveslongnails]

All the time.

[Rosexøxø]

That’s tough /:

[Staximus]

Of course

[Rosexøxø]

Simple truth 💪

[jimmy2]

Jealous is an cancer

[Rosexøxø]

I think you’re absolutely right!