What kind of things to guys do when they're jealous?

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guys: what do you do when ur jealousGirls: what do you do when ur jealous

Bellsen · Accepted Answer

Being jelouse is one of the worst feelings I can ever get, and it is really killing me.. I am definitly one of the jealouse-guys :P And it works in different ways, even if I'm jelouse because of something my boyfriend have done, or if its something which my friends have done. Or even my own family. All I can say is that those happenings has different reactions..

I might react a bit harder if it's something my boyfriend have done to make me jelouse, but that's always some kinda sweet. Or if it came an unknown girl up to him and like flirting with him and its abvious that they know each others from before and he didn't told me anything about her.

I would react like mad. And it would be like the minute before I actually beat him up. And I can't allow him to have any female friends either, because in our relationships earlier past, he has gave me prooves that it can't work along.

If I became jelouse over something my friends have done, if they instantly ignored me, I would probably work the same way to them. Being Ignorant and intolerant is something I really hate, and people shouldn't be any of those.

When it comes to jelouse in my family; I am very lucky, because I have never had so many reasons to feel jelouse and I am happy with it. And either way, if there were any way to make me jealouse, I would kinda be like just laughing it away, because I couldn't care less.

toulouse · Accepted Answer

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I don't understand why people would feel aggression towards people they are jealous OF.. girls seem to more so than guy its funny.

Guys talk about ignoring the girl the LIKE & girls talk about kicking the sh** out of the girl who likes the BOY THEY LIKE

IF IT IS OVER A GUY OR WORK : When I feel jealous which don't appreciate I feel embarrassed so I immediate remove myself from the situation & I do something that makes me feel stronger & better about myself - like write or run or read or photography or practice a instrument - just something that I am passionate about so can feel more empowered in a good way from my own strength not from someone elses pain..

Then eventually I talk the guy or go back to the work as tho WE / I have an acquaintance with it / him , not as tho I am or am not someone ELSE he / it as an acquaintance with...

There really is no comparison between one person & another anyways - so I don't see what he big trip is about ^ lol

ToootiFroooti · Accepted Answer

If I like a guy and I see girls all over him- or him chatting/ flirting or looking at girls I just act like I didn't see it. My biggest fear is someone in the class knowing I like him, and seeing me saddened by it. I hate feeling weak or being pittied. So usually ill just brush it off for the rest of class,  ignore him, and then once I'm alone start flipping. LOL or ill leave the room to " go to bathroom" and my mind starts racing once I'm in the hallway. If it happens more than once I usualy force myself to get over him. it's quite depressing because it happens so often :(

Stvancer · Accepted Answer

I don't get jealous. I used to, then I realized it was a waste of time and is an emotion generated from trying to be in control of something but failing at it.

If after a few dates I hear or see she is out with someone else, I just consider it friendly competition. If she flirts with another guy around me, I take solace in the fact that she is still there with me. The less you care about something she is doing that would make you jealous, the better off you are... to a point. If she starts sleeping with another guy, then its over, but don't get jealous, just get a new lady.

Brando · Accepted Answer

when I get jealous, I withdraw. I don't speak to the person I'm jealous over, and the person that's making me jealous I'll act subtly aggressive towards them. Basically, its the dog mentality- You stepped into my territory, don't expect to be coming over here making friends with me...expect me to have a grudge against you.

Marshall33 · Answer

When I am jealous I get quiet when my girlfriend talks about guys I never met before. Especially when she tals about how fun it was hanging out with them or experiencing things with them we have not before. I am asked by her what is going on and then I tell her I am jealous and she asks why and how and I say I am jealous and that is clear in itself is it not ? She does not go on about how I have no reason to be jealous but actually tells me she understands I am and then hugs me and says I am with you and am happ with you and I want you to be happy also and feel free to talk about other guys without you worrying about it but I get it since I would feel the same way if I were in our shoes. I seek to be more open communication wise with her rather than freak out.

dimequien · Answer

When I get jealous, it depends what mood I'm in. I will give my guy a look like what in the hell are you doing or looking at and then I won't talk to him. When he asks me what's wrong, I will tell him what's wrong. My guy doesn't like to make me jealous. He is very protective of me. He's the one that gets jealous easily, so he doesn't do anything to try and make me jealous  because he doesn't like it when guys even look at me when we're out  because he gets jealous easily!

levilandya · Answer

When my girl talks about other men in front of me I do get jealous but unlike other people I just either talk about this one girl I meet or my ex sometimes.It also 'helps' I guess is the word, if you look calm and talk confident and not seem 'hurt' or jealous when he/she talks of someone else.Also if she flirts with other men I just turn and find a girl that looked at me at least twice and start to flirt with her<------- This works like a charm, she comes back to me running, and always talking on how I should be less of a flirt now that I have her(nonsense).So basically just turn the table.

Dorby · Answer

Im not that jealous type...or at least what I haven't noticed yet.

Though I guess I'm not that aggressive and offensive as many others may be when they're jealous. I think I rather would withdraw and cry/feel sad about it...as the pathetic person I am =P

Snorkledorf · Answer

It's weird, I have no sense of jealousy at all. The whole "I want to own you and become your property too, isn't that sweet?" thing always struck me as more creepy than anything else. Time to work through some insecurity issues with a therapist or something.

Oh wait, that means I'm totally not qualified to answer this question, sorry! :)

Katarina · Answer

I get jealous easily, sadly. It makes me mad that I do too because when I am jealous, I just become a debbie downer. I get all depressed and unfortunately for my friends and family, I talk about how I wish things were and complain a bit.

I don't get mad at the other girl though. I just get upset that the guy doesn't see in me what he sees in her and dwell a lot on it. I never admit I'm jealous either. Ha. I am a complicated person.

Ephram · Answer

I get upset. I don't blame the person for whatever they are doing that's making me jealous, unless I feel they are doing it on purpose, or crossing the line.

For instance, sometimes I will be wanting to talk to someone, but they'll be busy talking to someone else. I'll get jealous, but it's not like I can get angry because of that. It would be very selfish of me if I did. So I'll just go try finding something else to do, but I'll be slightly hurt that I didn't get to talk.

CubanRaftRider · Answer

I don't get jealous often but when I do I usually don't talk to the person much (if at all).  I just don't say anything around them because I don't want to accidentally let my emotions get the better of me and say something  that could lead to me getting screwed in the end.

Anonymous · Answer

Simple answer...STEP MY GAME UP! I would step my game up to where I was making every1 else jealous. I don't get jealous I get jealoused...lol not a word. o well. I'd say most low self esteemers get either a) really mad and start fussing, or B) just give-up and go cry home to mommy or something.

Anonymous · Answer

If I'm jealous I obsess over it for a while until something happens that gives me faith again. After the inital freak out I get upset at the other girl and then look at it logically (maybe he just sees her as a friend/maybe making me jealous and succeeding?). Then I back off until he approaches me.

Littletad · Answer

We get p*ssed off. Lol, there's really nothing else to explain. We just get angry. We can ignore you for a few days, complain, or just become completely quiet.

dmagnific · Answer

If I like a girl and she knows it then she tries to make me jealous ill either try harder or if I've been at it for a while ill just give up. Its not worth going after a girl who would just hurt you when she knows that you like her.

jddrewes · Answer

It depends on what it's about, but I usually just back away. If they really do care about what I feel then they can ask me. If they don't, well then they don't have to worry about me bugging them then. More often than not they don't.

JaYce_Luff · Answer

I don't really get jealous but there are times when I feel suspicious and I start questioning things in my head so I became neurotic..and appareantly it shows on my face lol..so he starts reassuring me and I feel better afterwards

Belleza · Answer

I really never get jealous - the green monster just never wants to come out for anything! Even if you own something I want - I can't get jealous - I just brush it off my shoulders! And say oh well maybe next time!

Reeses-pieces777 · Answer

i don't do anything to hurt people if I'm jealous. if I am jealous, I just try to work on myself to improve myself.

aitkenvicky · Answer

Well, if I'm jealous, I would make it obvious that I am. I would want the guy to know. I would change my tone, and just not talk as much as I did.I would talk sarcastically, until he realizes.

psyche_gurl1 · Answer

I don't get jealous anymore.  I've figured out that if I'm starting to feel jealous, it's probably because they WANTED me to get jealous in the first place.  :)

Eilonwy · Answer

I pretend I'm fine but inside I feel like I'm falling apart , and depending on what it is I'm jealous of I get really really angry and scream and throw things

cjtheo · Answer

Ignore it and try to build my confidence enough to where I won't get jealous at all.  a little jealousy I don't mind but more than that is very unattractive in my opinion

cheche831 · Answer

Jealousy is a rare thing for me. The first time was when a girl and I liked the same guy, and if it seemed he'd give her more attention, all I did was step my game up. Other than that, an ex intentionally tried to make me jealous by going on about his new girl. I honestly couldn't care less about her, and I made him very aware of that fact, so he'd give up his efforts to make me jealous.

crrazaylove · Answer

this guy I know got jealous that my sister was talking to another dude and he beat the shyt out of that guy lol.

hesaysim2sexy · Answer

when I get jealous, I don't talk 2 much.. but my face says it all. and I get even after to make the person feel how it is to hurt me. sad but true.

Miss_Desirae · Answer

I rarely ever become jealous over anything, but I notice the times I do happen to get jealous, I tend to brood. Lols.

Eloquencia · Answer

Whenever I get jealous, I do extreme things to change myself, to try to make me look prettier. Like dieting, working out a lot more, or buying new clothes/makeup.

Anonymous · Answer

When I get jealous, I sit quietly and smile politely.  While on the inside, I'm conspiring the most twisted, wicked way to kill the bitch.

karaXD · Answer

honestly, I'm kind of passive aggressive until he takes the hintXP

biannnnnnn · Answer

when I get jealous my voice gets lower, I start acting crazy and doing stupid things.

falconshottiw1425 · Answer

ill start a fight with the other bitch! untill I get wht I want

Wolf100s · Answer

I think that when us girls are jealous we tend to act different with the guys, like not talk to them much, or not be all giggly because we know we're jealous but we also know that they like someone else.

jess97 · Answer

I really don't get jealous all that much and I try not to be because if I do... I would want to make him jealous back...and he wouldn't like that much.

BlackRaven · Answer

lol I go annoyingly insanely sarcastic and will not stop for ages. The strage thing is my ex seemed to like xS

Jasminet3 · Answer

Well my ex boyfriend tried to make me jealous by going to the movies with a friend of mine...i was more mad than jealous.

ArizonaRX · Answer

I don't get jealous, I get even.

COCOFONTANE · Answer

I try to take the other bitch down.

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