What guys think in when you make them jealous? Does it work?

[Milania88]

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

It might work, although temporary most of the time. Young & inexperienced guys might fall for it, but men with self-value & confidence in their abilities will reject it. Not just that but once we find out it’s a game we’re out and you can bet we’re telling all of our friends what kinda manipulative bitch she is.

[spartan55]

It works great for getting me to drop the girl. That shit is an automatic dump.

[Anonymous]

Some of them repel and never look back, cut off with her, doesn't take her serious anymore

[Opinion Owner]

Guys who love you more than their self respect will chase you for validation

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

Those kinda guys got some thinking and growing up to do, i know the type but i think that generalizing them all under “chasing for validation” is a little simplistic, men will always seek female validation for all sorta things and this way of thinking dates back to their mother’s validation when they were just little boys. Same counts for women but in that case it’s males and their fathers, there’s a reason why a child’s future is more likely to become depressed and go down a bad path if his parents are divorced / one being out of the picture.

[Opinion Owner]

@DamianTheSmikkelbeer yeah, I agree but she can miss out on a right guy if she keep on playing with them, anyone will get fed up. At the end, even the guy who seeks validation or the guy who's too nice can leave her for the same reason. They might never look back at her and she might need to do all the chasing to get them back if they runs away from her due to this reason

[Opinion Owner]

Some will not even come back after they've left even if she chases hard to get back, she might completely bound to miss the opportunity

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

I already agreed with you girl, just disagreed putting all of those guys under the same term. Insecurity affects everyone, it’s the way you deal with it that counts. My playbook always has been simple in this regard: Don’t play games, say what’s on your mind and find out. If i like a woman i’ll tell her, if she rejects me so be it she’ll find out the mistake the hard way.
Also if you expect me to read your mind and you mess with my feelings to try and attract me you weren’t meant for me in the first place, i’m looking for a woman who i’ll grow up old together with and who’ll be the mother of my children. I don’t need a manipulating & unreasonable bitch, if i wanted that i simply could’ve chosen a witch. Same counts for assholes who use women for their bodies and who abuse their good heart & caring altitude for their own benefit, screw them honestly.

[Anonymous]

That you're a manipulator... AVOID her! It can work in the short run. But when he figures out your game that'll be the end.

[BarryLiverstone]

Think it’s playing games and we lose respect for them

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

Men definitely would, any male who has self-value doesn’t play games like this. Some guys will fall for this and there’s plenty that get screwed because of it, once they find out it’s a game though they’ll leave the board aswell.

[Ms_Facesitter]

It doesn't work. It's stupid games.

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

Nice user

[Ms_Facesitter]

@DamianTheSmikkelbeer You too!

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

It’s Dutch lingo, if you know you know

[Ms_Facesitter]

@DamianTheSmikkelbeer A friend is nicknamed smikkelboef

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

@Ms_Facesitter If i had a friend with that name i definitely would’ve had a massive bromance with him and gotten drunk with him a bunch, but no it’s a inside-joke referring to my younger-self as i was quite the player & heartbreaker which admittedly was a asshole thing to do and definitely broke a few innocent hearts in the day but never ever did i cheat on anyone and i always tried to make them feel good in Cassanova fashion even after breaking it up. I was a immature A-hole, not a villian or a fuckboy.

[Fes13]

Only when you're sincere

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

It’s more likely to turn us off then to actually attract us though, no guy likes to have their feelings played with

[Fes13]

I'm being facetious, sarcastic.
If they fake no,
but if the really fake, yes.
Of course untrue both cases.
Why you think they call it battle of the sex...

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

Because having sex is like waging war

[wolfdam0]

if yes it is useful