Does he fancy me?

[Anonymous]

Attractive guy that I connected on linked in with some years ago has started over the last few months, viewing my profile a lot. Sometimes daily. He asked for my number from a mutual friend and messaged because I was poorly, that’s it. He doesn’t message on my phone but is still checking out my LinkedIn profile. When we first connected we sent a few messages which were totally work related but he has recently split with his long term girlfriend. I fancy him but don’t want to look silly if I reach out and get rejected! Why view my profile so often, which I can obviously see but not message? Shy maybe?

Does he fancy me?

Am I being silly?

[Anonymous]

I'd guess he's feeling lonely after a long relationship, and possibly looking for 'short term' options now that itch is not being scratched.
How many others is he paying close attention to?
No harm in sending him an innocent hello to try to engage with him.

[Avicenna]

Maybe he’s not ready to date anyone or isn’t sure if you’d reject him

[Summeroflove]

Ask him out. Rejection sucks. But you gotta take a risk. Because you never know unless you ask.


Look at it this way. If you’re rejected you’re not waiting on a guy who never wants you anyways

[Guy13]

Risk and do or don't (rebound girl) get rejected or Don't, stay rejected, and whine about it... C'mon, what 's the point?

[Akam93]

@Guy13 us women are also afraid of rejection cause we dont want to get hurt. It happens to me all the time so I would know.

[Asker]

I hear you, although wasn’t whining 👌 just trying to see if some intelligent opinions would come out of this, to boost my confidence and help.

[Guy13]

You know, I don't mean to come off Nasty but I'm black/white too much... I think. It's like if one does not promote or stand-up, "hey" in the world of today then we are pretty much out of luck. That's what I am trying to say.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 well we want to know what's inside the man mind.

[roy_ricky09]

LinkedIn isn't social media site... Maybe he likes your picture there

[Akam93]

Probably attracted but shy.