Why would he insult me behind my back to mutual male friends, after showing every sign of interest but rejecting me?

[Anonymous]

[spartan55]

Can't answer without details.

[Asker]

He flirted with me constantly, then rejected my romantic advances despite inviting me to Christmas lunch at his house. Then the next thing, after I’d told him that I feel annoyed with him about something, he accused me of emotional abuse behind my back, avoided me and told mutual friends to be careful of me. That I’m strange. Then he chased me for a year, turning up everywhere I was, having his family look me up on Facebook repeatedly and sending me in appropriate photos.

[spartan55]

And all you care about is WHY (of course) smh

[Asker]

I don’t care about why, but I’m curious. It’s strange behaviour.

[spartan55]

You just totally contradicted yourself. You are curious why? He's a fuckhead, that's why.

[Asker]

I mean the reason why isn’t important to me. I just wonder sometimes why. That’s a reasonable point.

[spartan55]

Lol... you just contradicted yourself again... read the sentence you wrote out loud and ask yourself if it makes any sense.

[spartan55]

His family sent you inappropriate pictures?
Like what, his dad sent you a dick pic?

[Asker]

No he did. His family just kept looking me up

[Asker]

I don’t really get that either

[Asker]

How is saying I have mild curiosity rather than finding an answer essential to know contradicting myself?

[spartan55]

You'll never know anyway so why bother?

[Asker]

Good point.

[spartan55]

I already told you the answer: because he is a fuckhead. Mystery solved.

[Asker]

😂👍👍

[spartan55]

I know that's not the answer or explanation you wanted, but we don't always get those answers...

[Asker]

Well, that answer is true enough 😊👍

[Anonymous]

He turned on you for some reason.

[Asker]

Why did he turn on me?

[Opinion Owner]

That's a good question to ask him.

[Asker]

I’m not sure. I think it’s best that I avoid him.

[Opinion Owner]

I agree. :)