If girls aren't fond of unattractive guys, then how do other males view us?

[Anonymous]

Apart from not getting along with the opposite sex

I've also known that many guys either feel irritated by my presence of if I just talk... simply just existing has irritated many of them

[Effably]

I am unmoved by another guy's attractiveness or lack thereof. Oh sure, if he's the very idea of beauty and absolutely perfect comments on some things might hit harder but that is about it. Never met someone like that but I can imagine that there is a level where the attention becomes flattering. Just never saw it, yet.

Reality and the difference in how we treat guys and girls is that when a girl is annoying we'll make some excuse so as to not make her feel bad. When a guy is annoying we'll outright telll him. If that doesn't fix it, he becomes excluded because why would we socialize with someome we do not like? It is brutal but honest. And not based on looks while they may have some effect, a funny, smart, interesting etc guy remains all that if he us good looking or not. And hanging out with the good-qualities guy remains a positive experience.

I'd consider using other guys as the mirror to how you are seen. You can affect that. If other guys find you annoying? That is how people see you because that is what you show us. Show us something else and we will see that. Take Gag. In each message you could be anything, anyone, you could be angelic, demonic, wholesome, cute, flirty, funny so on. How others see you comes down to how you make them see you. I don't have the energy to pretend to see guys any different than they are. So if I think someone is irritating, they are being irritating.

[Anonymous]

Obviously unattractive

[Asker]

Do they get uncomfortable around us?

[Opinion Owner]

No no.. it's a confidence booster