How long until you realize you have been ghosted by a guy?

[Akam93]

[Guy13]

sorry but do not over stress please. Ghosting is to suddenly, without reason, stop texting or contacting another in order to shock the other for no seemingly good reason. They go totally dead AFTER establishing contact. Someone fluctuating, slowing down/speeding up, and/or inconsistent is not ghosting.

If this is first contact then this does not qualify as Ghosting as I understand it. It is possibly one who is busy until around Thursday, was drinking, lost your data, can't remember what you looked liked, or not very brave without liquid courage.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 I feel so hurt right now. :( he said he wouldn't do that to me also.

[Guy13]

This was at New Years?

[Akam93]

Yes last time I heard from him was around midnight.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 this guy said sweet things to me and just things I've never heard had any guy say. Made me believe that he actually liked me.

[Guy13]

Think maybe tequila tongue. Ta-kill-ya 🥃 Tongue 👅 ? People can talk smack when a buzz hits them. Next day freak out “I’m shy…not me…will not like me” and talk himself out of it.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 are you trying to make me laugh? Lol cause it usually works with all your weird brains you have.

[Guy13]

Yes, I am trying to make you laugh.. My brain makes much more sense in person because you can see my nonverbal and hear pitch/tone. It is much harder to follow along with me in this format. This is why I rarely text with work and very few emails are ever 8 sentences. Numbers/Spreadsheet speak for themselves...

[Akam93]

@Guy13 you always make me laugh. :) probably cause you say things that sometimes make zero sense. Lol

[Guy13]

Apparently the computer gets it... I don't even know with the superb answers... it's like 20 a day from start date. Computer languages get me... Maybe I am the next evolution pre-chip inserted as replacement genetic nucleotide... I am one of the first Keanu (s), in the line until final Keanu, that did not work out in the Matrix!!!

[Akam93]

@Guy13 your a funny man. Lol are we consider friends then?

[Guy13]

I would think so but often my times of communications are sporadic and at odd times... but so am I so there you go !!

[Akam93]

@Guy13 Well like I said always feel free to message me. :)

[Akam93]

I make a good friend.

[Passing_by]

Give 2-3 days. If he still doesn't drop a text, you have you answer.

[Paulychicagoluv]

Since I'm a guy and heterosexual, I would not care if, when, how long someone did.

From a guys perspective, 2 full days

[WhitneySnow]

Like a day or two?

[Akam93]

It's been a whole day for me. I'm sure what's going on with him.

[WhitneySnow]

Sometimes guys get busy with school or work or stuff. Maybe give him a little longer?

[Akam93]

I will wait until tomorrow I guess. It's just he said he wouldn't do that to me. Now I feel hurt and confused again. :(

[WhitneySnow]

Just be patient. There’s a chance he didn’t ghost you. Sometimes guys just get crazy busy.