He hasn’t replied to me in hours?

[Anonymous]

So me and this guy who I used to be seeing sorted things out with eachother. He put so much effort in and I thought I would be nice and send him a message asking how he is now he hasn’t even opened the message for 16hours? Also he hasn’t been seen on any social media. Don’t know what to think i feel so sad :(

[Guy13]

Overthinking and stressing him out with your demands.

[Asker]

So you think I am just overthinking? I haven’t demanded for anything

[Guy13]

If you are pressuring him to text or passive-agressively making comments whether you perceive positive or negative related to text then he is stressing. I am not there but I know what this feels like and I know what I do...

[Asker]

I just sent a message saying ‘ hey how are you? ‘

[Asker]

Is that bad lol

[Guy13]

Yes. he'll get back to you when he is ready. That would have added another week and probably forgotten you totally by that time.

[Asker]

Wtf that’s rude :(

[Guy13]

That's how guys think and sometimes act. You want nice buy a golden retriever...