He slept with me, said he wants my kid and I am his soulmate but then he said he is confused about me and his ex. Now he proves me his single. Why?

[Deimy]

[Anemone978]

He actually loves his ex or he doesn't want either one of you... He sounds like a player... Tells you what you want to hear to get you in bed...

[Deimy]

But now he say she is a psycho, not good with her head and he proves me he has no girlfriend and he is not with her

[Anemone978]

All guys say that... I bet you he is sleeping with both of you just going back and forth because he can..

[Deimy]

She said she is not his girlfriend... also they live in different countries, me and him, we live in Lithuania and she lives in Israel

[Anemone978]

Oh... well then I have no idea LOL Maybe he really likes you but maybe he just doesn't want to commit for now and wants to have fun.. I don't know

[Deimy]

He said to me that I am a really good person and he feels bad for how he treated me , he does not feel good about himself and he calls himself " a guy with defects". He also told me that he respects me and defended me from that girl

[Deimy]

*his ex cause she called me a whore

[Summeroflove]

Because he’s probably using you for sex and lying to you. Maybe if you had standards you wouldn’t have this problem.

[Deimy]

Ye but why after sex he was still communicating with me for more than a month, planning dates but never actually go on them and asking not to leave him

[Deimy]

And he is not with her now , he asked her to explain to that they are not together

[Summeroflove]

Because he’s using you

[Summeroflove]

Plus if you agreed to sleep with him especially if you knew at the time he was in a relationship. It don’t make you much better

[Deimy]

He was single and he is single now

[Summeroflove]

Well. I would move on from him. He obviously is a flake and isn’t into you and just wants to sleep with you

[Deimy]

And what he feels about her calling her psycho?

[Summeroflove]

She probably is. But he seems to deserve her

[SnowedIn]

Because he has not gotten over his ex. That or he's saying things to get you in bed and keep you in bed.

[Deimy]

But he say now that his ex wants him to be hers, she is psycho and not ok with her head and he hates that she post old photos with him

[SnowedIn]

She sounds psycho yes. I was just answering your question on why I think he did what he did. But if you're now asking why he wants to be with a psycho instead of you I don't have a good answer. People don't make rational choices about partners.

[Deimy]

Nope he is not with her as he said he say he has no girlfriend now

[SnowedIn]

Wow. I'm sorry I have no clue on this one.

[Deimy]

Yes that' s is why I don' t understand
.. maybe he changed his mind about her cause she said to me for no reason that " in the end he will be mine". Like what? He said to me that he told me that he wants to date me just for her to message me and tell everything
.. but she said to me she does not know what he wanted from her and he only asked to message me not explained why... so maybe he wants to date me? I don' t know

[boggboss]

Sounds like he is just saying stuff as he goes and dint really mean it

[Deimy]

Ye but why after sex he was still communicating with me for more than a month, planning dates but never actually go on them and asking not to leave him

[boggboss]

So u was still available as a option if he did want to go back to you

[Deimy]

Like now? Or back then?

[boggboss]

Both I would think

[Guy13]

Man emotion after sex. Regret for saying it. Not ready for any relationship with anyone.

[Deimy]

Ye but why after sex he was still communicating with me for more than a month, planning dates but never actually go on them and asking not to leave him. He felt remorseful of how he acted, said he cause damage for me. Then he said he did that cause he was confused and he still does not know if he wants to come back to his ex cause they dated for 7 years , she was his first love. Now, after a month he tries to prove he is not with her and single. Why?

[Guy13]

He's not serious and all drama. I guess you like that.

[AngryCarl]

I don't know, you should ask him what he wants. One-night-stand, relationship, marriage? What?

[Deimy]

I asked. Then he asked me twice if I want a guy to fuck or for him to be my man. I said both. But why after sex he was still communicating with me for more than a month, planning dates but never actually go on them and asking not to leave him

[Jmmmfi4]

Just because he slept with you doesn't mean he cares about you

[Vikkrram]

He Just manipulated you for sex

[Deimy]

Ye but why after sex he was still communicating with me for more than a month, planning dates but never actually go on them and asking not to leave him. He felt remorseful of how he acted, said he cause damage for me. Then he said he did that cause he was confused and he still does not know if he wants to come back to his ex cause they dated for 7 years , she was his first love. Now, after a month he tries to prove he is not with her and single. Why?

[Anonymous]

Because you were a pump n dump a fuck n chuck