He’s in a new happy relationship but still won’t let me go! He didn’t want to be with me when he had the chance so what’s his deal?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Immature baby. Block him everywhere.

[HateyouxD]

It's because you're also holding on. Let him/it go. He didn't want you when he "had" you. You know it. You even said so yourself.

Sorry for the loss sis

[Asker]

I was but I’m not now. Every time I start to feel better he comes back around, but this time I really am done.

[HateyouxD]

Girl all these dudes know this. They have this radar like, "I have an inkling she's moving on... let me go text her to ruin her day" 🙄
Sis, be a savage back. Go live your life. He will hate his guts when he let a bomb queen go. If not he will go ruin the next victims life. trust me sis he ain't worth it

[HateyouxD]

You also dont have to convince me. It's you. Having to spend years and years in a toxic cycle with this so called man

[Asker]

I know. It’s more complicated than a few words here on a screen but I watch actions more than listen to words, I’m already letting go, hence the discussion.

[Asker]

I’m just trying to understand so I know how to best manage it. I’m firm but not harsh.

[HateyouxD]

Be harsh... that's your issue. Because from how I see it he doesn't give a damn how you feel. And the back and forth with him is causing you stress. Think about your mental health for once.

[HateyouxD]

Tired of other women not putting their foots down. We run the world dammit lol like fr. These men will do anything to sleep with us /to have us and y'all make it so easy for them. Know your worth queen

[Asker]

This is more of a projection of your own experience than mine tbh.

[HateyouxD]

Lol say I'm wrong tho? You literally said the words "He’s in a new happy relationship but still won’t let me go! He didn’t want to be with me when he had the chance so what’s his deal?"

Itll happen watch!! I dont wish it I'm just telling you how fuck boys are and you should get out while you can. But I dont really care it's your life not mine

[Asker]

Dude this is pointless. Aggression doesn’t solve issue, it perpetuates them ironically. Leading by example is the way to go. Firm but fair, not harsh.

[HateyouxD]

No I understand but I'm also saying your feelings are valid. If you wanna go off I dont blame you. But you know all the answers dear. Goodluck!! I wish you the best and most of all happiness

[Asker]

I don’t need to go off. Thanks. All the best to you too.