Indian guys only please help me out with this one?

[Anonymous]

I am in love with a brahmin boy who is a year younger than me and I am a kayastha girl. He doesn't know yet that i am a year older than him cause we met on a social media platform and for security reasons things I didn't tell hik my personal details. Since then we have been talkimg and i think i am strongly attached to him. How do I break this to him and how will he most possibly react? He knows my caste and nickname but not my real name or age. Please help me out

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I know that he likes me a lot cause he has persuaded me for a long time to be in a relationship but I couldnt be because i knew the truth that he doesn't.

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There aren't much indian guys on this platform or what? Share as much as possible

[Snedger____]

Hi, As you met him online and already is ready for a relationship without even knowing your age or name, he probably would doesn’t care about it.

if you’re going serious you cannot hide it, just him straight !!

[Asker]

He will think so low of me. How shoukd i frame my sentence so as to not ckme outbas a cheater who was simply playing with his feelings till now?

[Asker]

Should* come*

[Asker]

Out as*

[Snedger____]

So you could just tell him that you didn’t feel comfortable to share real name and age at first. Then he’ll ask and you can tell.

You don’t have to worry much in this matter. I think you both are immature to proceed to a relationship without knowing even basic things about each other.

[Anonymous]

I dumped my Indian ex and started dating white men. Best thing I ever did.

[Asker]

Why though

[Opinion Owner]

Bigger penis

[Anonymous]

Why not tell him straight forward? Better sooner than later

[Opinion Owner]

Kitne time se saath me ho tum dono?

[Asker]

Hum sept 2022 me mile the

[Asker]

Mjhe darr hai ye jaanke wo bolega ki tum itne time chup kyun thi

[Asker]

I might lose him

[Opinion Owner]

Abhi bahut zyada time nhai hua hai... so bata do abhi... waise i don't think ki ek saal bada hone me koi dikkat hogi usko
Why worry so much?

[Asker]

Baato hi baato me mne ek baar puchha tha toh he said ki ghrwalo ko dikkat hogi or me bhi utna psnd nhi krunga

[Opinion Owner]

Socho agar 4 mahine me tumko ye dar hai.. so zyada time baad to aur time ho jayega

[Asker]

Haan ho toh jaega... but tum uski jagah hote toh kese react krte

[Asker]

Uprse hmari caste bhi alag hai

[Opinion Owner]

Dekho sedhi si baat hai.. jaisa mujhe lagta hai abhi keh do..
Better now...
Baad me dono ko emotional pain jiyega agar is wajah se baat nahi bani to

[Opinion Owner]

Maine to apna bataya... mereko to 1-2 saal badi ladki me koi dikkat nahi hai... that's better than being with a much younger girl
Lekin uski soch alag hogi.. especially uski family ki... khaas kar ke Brahmin society me ye sab bahut dekhte

[Asker]

Mjhme himmat nhi ho rhi thi sach btane ki toh maine ye bolke baat band ki hmari caste alag hai ghr wale ni manege or mjhe bhi or explore krna hai toh usne gusse me block kr diya mjhe kyuki wo ek chance chahta tha... mjhe lga accha hua sach btane se ye accha hai... but i missed him a lot really... toh fir usko bola ki unblock kr... tbse wo utti baat nhi krra... new year wish kiya bas

[Opinion Owner]

Block kaha kia? And jab blocked thi to usko bola kaise? I am confused

[Opinion Owner]

And abhi itna time to hua hai nahi... fir tum itna emotional q ho rahi ho uske piche?
Kaafi handsome and tall hai kya?

[Asker]

Arey ek din wo keh rha tha ki tum mjhe psnd krti ho i know toh girlfriend bnne kya dikkat hai tb mne bola ki mjhe or explore krna hai ghrwale nhi manege toh fir usne gusse me block kiya whatsapp se

[Asker]

Pta nhi... i m attached to him... hum dono docs hain or pre pg ki taiyari krre hain... he is the best medico guy i have came across

[Opinion Owner]

Ahan.. i see
Doc ho dono
Fir to sahi hai... medicos apas me acha coordination kar paate..
Tumhara pehla relationship hoga kya ye?

[Opinion Owner]

Q ki kaafi emotional ho rahi tum iske liye

[Asker]

Mera tha ek frst year 30 din ka relationshp🤣🤣bachpana tha wo...

[Asker]

Emorional ka pta nhi... ldke nhi hote shyd itta emotional... he has turned a bit rude too

[Asker]

Though i know he is a nice guy who really wantedme... bahut baar puccha usne pls be my girlfriend

[Opinion Owner]

Han ladke itni jaldi emotional nahi hote... waise generally guys want to impress a girl and be in her good books, win her... but guys jaldi move on bhi kar lete especially agar ladki jyada bhav de rahi ho aur interest na dikhaye

[Opinion Owner]

Tumne kya jawab diya when he asked you to be his girlfriend?

[Opinion Owner]

And ha is platform pe Indians very rare hai

[Asker]

Mere mind me tha ki ise pta lgega kinek saal badi hun n all toh apne àap chhod dega toh maine bola ki hmara future nhi hai parents nhi manege n all toh usne kaha ki hum docs hain... bahut tym hai hmare pas , me apne parents ko mana lunga... psnd ki ldki se hi shaadi krunga or hmare yhan utna strict nhi hai... usnewo sab bola jisse me maan jaun

[Asker]

Ha ye paltform indians me famous nhi hai

[Asker]

Foreigners caste wgrh nhi smjhte utna... na hi ldki ka ek saal bada hona koi issue hai unke liye...

[Asker]

Par wo ldka jo itna picche tha mere wo ab message nhi krta wo block wgrh wale episode ke baad... mne bola ki kyu message nhi krte toh he said ki me phone use nhi krra itta and kya hi baat karun... pehle khud hi bahut message krta tha... ab bas new year pr khudse wish kiya usne or kucch nhi...
Mjhe apni field me usse bdiya ladka abhi tk mila nhi toh apni kismat pr jyada gussa aa rha 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Dekho... ek dusre ko samjho jaano.. achha dost bano... kuch chupao nahi.. Lekin ha Brahmins ne bahut strict hote family wale
Thoda kam emotional hona... and don't get physically intimate too early and easily...

[Opinion Owner]

Kaha mile tumlog?

[Asker]

Tm bhi brahmin ho kya?

[Asker]

Hum telegram pr mile the fir calls wgrh pr baat hui n whsapp n all

[Opinion Owner]

Kis sense me badhiya lagta hai tumko? Connect... nature and intelligence me? Ye looks me?

[Asker]

Im pure vegetarian but wo non veg khata hai🤣 brahmin hai fir bhi... usle yhan uske mama ne kayastha se shaadi ki hai... toh mjhe bas age ka lag rha

[Asker]

Intelligence /looks / nature/voice... kisi negative situation me khudko kese handle krna hai... character me... sab me accha hai

[Opinion Owner]

Na mai Brahmin nahi hu . Acha tum pure veg ho despite being kayastha. Wah. Anda bhi nahi khati tum?

[Opinion Owner]

Don't loose hope... Lage raho
Time hai
Kaun sa itni jaldi shadi karni hai tumne

[Asker]

Yes im pure vegetarian... no eggs

[Asker]

Haan pta nhi ldke bahut azeeb hote hain🤣

[Opinion Owner]

To how do you complete your protein intake?

[Opinion Owner]

Telegram group pe mile?

[Asker]

Han group pr mile

[Opinion Owner]

Waise ek baat puchna chahta h... especially Indian girl ka opinion chahiye..
Puchu? Bataogi... thoda ajeeb sawal hai lekin bolo to puchu

[Asker]

Protien dal / legumes/milk se bhi ho jata hai cover... non veg is not needed

[Asker]

Kya pucchna hai?

[Opinion Owner]

Don't take in wrong way
Mereko Jaan na hai ki Ladkiyon ko ladkon pe closely trimmed/ Shaved legs, thighs and chest pasand hota hai ya natural hairy type?

[Asker]

Natural

[Opinion Owner]

Natural even if ladke ke legs, thighs, chest and abdomen pe bahut saare baal ho.. more than an average amount on/for a man...
Then?

[Asker]

Then no

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm.. woi to
Then closely trimmed... ya waxed? Even on legs?

[Asker]

Closely trimmed

[Opinion Owner]

Ya i realised.
Waise tum ladkiya kya kabhi iss baare me baat karte ho? Ki Chee wo ladka kitna hairy hai... ya wow wo ladka acha smooth bodied hai?

[Asker]

Lol no

[Asker]

Tum kis caste ko belong krte ho?

[Asker]

Srry agr bura lage mera pucchna toh

[Opinion Owner]

Nai isme bura kyu lagega.. mai Punjabi Khatri hu

[Opinion Owner]

Ladkiyan ladko ke baare me kuch ya koi baat karti hai? Ya nahi? 🤔🤨😒

[Asker]

Hum boys ko nhi krte discuss...
Do boys discuss girls?

[Opinion Owner]

Ha yaar... we boys discuss about girls...
Shayad we guys are way more attracted towards and fascinated by girls...
Girls aren't that much into guys.. aisa hai na?

[Asker]

Haan shyd hai aisa

[Opinion Owner]

Aisa q hai?
Kya tumko aisa lagta hai ki girls are much better and aesthetically pleasing looks wise/physically... compared to guys?

[Asker]

I am. straight... obviously opp. Gender ko dusra gender psnd ayega

[Opinion Owner]

Do you girls talk about other girls especially in other ways... amongst eachother?
Ki wo dekho kaisi achi lagti hai.. wo kaafi hot lagri.. aisa wisa?

[Asker]

Sometimes

[Opinion Owner]

What about guys do you girls in general like... and prefer over women?

[Asker]

😅😅weird questions

[Opinion Owner]

Umhmm maybe 🤔
I am quite curious though

[Summeroflove]

Just ask him out

[Asker]

really? Thats a short answer

[Summeroflove]

Yeah.

[Asker]

are u Indian

[Summeroflove]

Don’t typically give personal info out. I have Cherokee blood in me so yes.

[Summeroflove]

But you should just ask him out

[Asker]

I dont have the guts to tell him the truth that i am a year older and i fear losing him

[Asker]

Lol what's cherokee

[Summeroflove]

Cherokee Indian

[Asker]

Also if u know more indian guys on this platform share this ques with them please

[Summeroflove]

Well. It’s better to be honest now. Then see where things go. Rather then things working for now and losing him later.

Being older ain’t that big of a deal

[Summeroflove]

No I don’t.

[Summeroflove]

Sorry