So... me and my coworker have a strange relationship. We used to have long phone calls where he initiated the conversations, he touches me a lot, he jokes with having a marriage with me, he texts me... etc. I don't know what to think.
Yesterday another coworker of ours was drunk and asked me to drive him home and I accepted. In the car he started insulting the coworker that im flirting with (they had a fight earlier that day) and telling me "he is joking with me just the way he is joking with you"... I asked "what do u mean?"
He replied "he is manipulating you, he is making you think that he likes you... and when I asked him why do u treat her like that, why aren't you two getting together already, he then said "she is batshit crazy, I don't want to do anything with her" ...
And I went speechless... I don't understand why would he tell something like that to another coworker, why would he treat me like that if he thinks that I'm crazy... I don't understand anything anymore.
Should I confront him? Should I rake these words with a grain of salt?
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Hmm Drunk Man... saying stuffs. It says that people do usually say right when they are drunk but i think he likes you and he has been insecure about you that you might get that with his another co workers.
He just trying to prevent you not to go wid him and stay wid him. And he might told you crazy coz he might have given some signs that guy was not good for you and you didn't understand.
I was thinking the same thing... but later disclosed it, cause this man is much older than me and I find it hard to believe that he might be liking me that way. But u make sense, cause he has begun to say "I love you" as he was drunk and It has happened multiple times. He also started leaning towards me in my car. Maybe I'm wrong about men.
Look you can have feelings for anyone irrespective of their age. That's not a big deal
Seems like you are easily manipulated.