Why is it that my ex boyfriend seems back offish at times? but but at the same time I’ve noticed that he has been watching my Instagram story?

[ShateriaNorman1]

Basically my ex boyfriend that I have been broken up with every since may of last year or months ago seems to come off as back offish at certain times and sort of hot and cold as well for example months ago he had no problems hugging me and even kissing me but now if I ask for just a regular hug he comes off as back offish but I don’t know why he also used to unblock me and block me on Instagram constantly and now that he has unblocked me for about 2 months now he tends to watch my Instagram story but not every day he does it every now and then this makes the 4th time I’ve caught him in my views on Instagram even though we both don’t follow each other last month he even admitted to being under my highlights and watching my highlights and being on my page but he doesn’t like any of my posts or videos he just watches my stories every now and then his actions are a little confusing to me he was even watching my story when he was in a relationship with another female that he isn’t with any more

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Any more opinions I need more answers

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And yes I’m sure he didn’t cheat guys

[Raaj4you]

It's natural to think about past relationships. Also he is not sure about you. I was in a same situation before.

[ShateriaNorman1]

Yeah I agree I think he’s confused and or maybe conflicted but it’s a very confusing situation itself and how did you manage your situation like this before?

[Raaj4you]

I have blocked and unblocked her several times. She reads my texts and never responds. She didn't block me though. She likes me but she is confused about her feelings just like me. So I have unblocked her, let see what happens next?

[ShateriaNorman1]

Wait so what made you block and unblock her multiple times? I’m sort of in her shoes but not really because you said that she reads your texts and never responds but I’ve never did that to him and he doesn’t do that to me and I never blocked him either not one time and I still like him and live him still but he has unblocked me as well on social media but I’m
Not sure what’s next in his opinion he feels like I didn’t want him due to me accusing him of cheating on me

[Raaj4you]

Thanks for MHO.😊

[Raaj4you]

I get frustrated sometimes, I blocked her when I was in a bad mood. I unblocked her when I was thinking about her.
In your case, I am sorry he cheated on you. I think he wants you back badly. He is a man, he is frustrated. It's upto both of you, start talking again, clear misunderstandings or move on.

[ShateriaNorman1]

I think that’s probably what made my ex keep constantly unblocking and blocking me him getting mad but then him thinking about me and I also found out he never cheated the female who said it actually was lying all of that had happened before I had even came in the picture so I apologized to him for accusing him of cheating on me so he said that he appreciated my apology and that he was going to work on forgiving me I’m not really sure why he’s confused or if he has mixed feelings or what and we are young I’m finna be 19 next month and he’s finna be 18 next month but we did have a huge misunderstanding

[Raaj4you]

Good to know that it was just a big misunderstanding.

[-Mad-]

Why did you break up?

who farted first!

[ShateriaNorman1]

We broke up due to me accusing him of cheating and due to a few issues in our relationship due to his actions at the time but I’ve apologized to him about it but I had valid reason to believe why he was cheating on me at the time

[-Mad-]

So you’re sure now that he didn’t cheat?

[ShateriaNorman1]

Yes I’m sure that he didn’t cheat

[ShateriaNorman1]

The female who tried to say that he was trying to so called have sexual relations with was telling a big ass lie because she was jealous of me and his relationship including my own family but I found out the actual truth and that happened months before I came in the picture plus she never showed me any type of proof or evidence or facts that he tried to do any of that when we were dating so he blocked her on social mafia after finding out what she had been saying and plus I’ve heard that this is something that she repeatedly dies with other peoples relationships

[DevikaButts95]

It's best to just ignore him and not worry about it. The reason ultimately doesn't matter.

[WhitneySnow]

He misses you but he’s also not sure if he wants to get back together with you

[ShateriaNorman1]

You think so? Because I’ve heard lots of people’s opinions and a lotta people think that he’s back offish due to our situation and probably because he doesn’t know what to do

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah. I think he does miss you but he’s not sure what to do about it or if he really wants to get back together with you.

[ShateriaNorman1]

Yeah I think I would have to agree with you on both of your opinions he’s probably not sure due to the break up I’m guessing even though it’s been over 8 Months but I haven’t spoke to him or anything about our break up like that or anything

[sarahstar13]

He is keeping his eyes on you but doesn't want to make it obvious (in person mainly).

[ShateriaNorman1]

Wait.. could you explain what you meant by this if you don’t mind

[sarahstar13]

Absolutely. So it may seem like he isn't interested in person, but there is a part of him that is still wondering about you. At least when he views them online, he doesn't make it completely obvious compared to in person.

[ShateriaNorman1]

Okay that seems to make sense a little bit much better because we broke up back in may and basically even after we broke up he was still kissing and hugging on me and then in August he tried to come on to me and was touching up on me and stuff and then basically after that he ended up dating a new female around October but they broke up last month but he would always kiss me or hug me and all and he was also watching my story on Instagram even when he was dating his recent girl that he’s no longer with any more so yeah he would watch my story from time to time but not all the time like for example he admitted last month to watching my highlights and being under my page and the way he said it was kind of weird in a since but he was also in my views last week as well so yeah he does it from time to time or every now and then but it’s not a every day thing but he is very sort of back offish like I said which leaves me lost and confused about how he feels and about him as well

[Anonymous]

He hasn't completely gotten over you yet.

[ShateriaNorman1]

Can you explain if you don’t mind? Like as in what makes you think he hasn’t completely gotten over me yet? Mind you me and him have been broken up every since early may do it’s about 10 or 11 months or so but I think he still might be hurt or so I’m not sure because he’s not the type to express himself or how he feels but I did go out my way to literally send him about 3 long ass paragraphs to apologize to him for accusing him of cheating with no proof

[Opinion Owner]

Because he keeps looking at your story.