This things, I think, it's wanted by every guy.. but how to fulfill a guy in other way if I don't want to give him bj?

[Anonymous]

I mean for long term relationship not just short term

I never heard online , a one guy/man to say that they will be ok to not get this... usually and always they say they gonna broke up
And I suppose they all will do
Or behind scenes go and fulfill this needs
Anyway opinions are welcomed

[OfMiceandMen]

One of my first long term girlfriend's was like that. Sure I missed bjs but she did other things to satisfy me.

She enjoyed me going down on her, which I didn't have a problem with, as I loved the way it got her excited to do other things.

[Asker]

But what if it's your wife.. for you will be too much, to not have that?

[OfMiceandMen]

To be honest, if she made up for it in other ways, I would be fine.

[midnightmoon05]

If you are the wife, a woman who loves the boyfriend/husband, you do have intimacy and sex with your husband right?
Others have responded that their gfs also have sex or sexual act with them. But all you are asking if you don’t give oral and the guy leaves. The way it sounds, if I’m the guy dating a girl who is clueless, and disrespectful I would leave not because of not getting BJs.

[MrCommodore]

I never want blow jobs, never found them pleasurable, so never ask for them. Probably loads of other guys who don't want them also, everyone is different.

[Asker]

Omg... what

[Asker]

No way

[MrCommodore]

Yes, I am being 100% honest.

[Asker]

Well that's impressive and it's glad to hear it

[midnightmoon05]

If you are married. Are you also enjoying sex with love and enthusiasm?

if yes…the guy will be happy without bjs.

[boggboss]

I enjoyvthen but they ain't that important don't think I have had one in over 6 months but the sex is still banging so not that bothered

[Asker]

But what if it's a long relationship, will not be too much

[boggboss]

I'm 6 years in

[Asker]

That's pretty a lot... so you not have urges for it?

[boggboss]

I enjoy it but don't require it like I said my sexual urges fulfilled

[spartan55]

Too many out there who love sucking dick to waste time with one who won't.

[Asker]

Fair enough...

[standardguy]

I would break up with a girl if she would insist giving me a blow job.

Cunnilingus is better than anything else!

[Asker]

What is that

[Asker]

And why you will broke up if she will give you... I mean usually opposite

[standardguy]

If a girl think that giving a bj is not degrading, then she is not the right girl for me. I want her to be proud and demanding and nothing like a servant.

[Asker]

Yeah, that's the feeling, I even could fake much that

[standardguy]

You like to be demanding and uppity? :-D

[Asker]

Yes... but also that person to understand from half word or just sign.. I mean to be felt

[standardguy]

Yes I know that many women want to be understood without words. This can be in some cases immediately, in other cases it takes years being together for it and in other cases it'll never happen.

[Asker]

But guys say it straight away or they also want to be understand without words , more often?

[standardguy]

Average guys say all they want straigt away and normally don't expect you to know what they think and feel.

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, it would be a deal breaker for me. But I do see polls where a small percentage of men don't want them.

[MrPotatoHead78]

Absolutely essential. 40+ years and my wife still gives me two a week.