What do you men want out of relationship?

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because in my age i think guys just want sex, but I’m asking what do MEN want. thanks for answers!!:))

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes sex is very important to most of us men , especially in a relationship with a girl that we want standing by our side. But other than sex? we want to be with a girl that values us and appreciates us that makes us feel wanted , that stays loyal and faithful and honest with us. That compliments us by saying positive things , words of affirmation. are importnat to most of us guys’ A girl that has our back the same way she wants us to have hers. A girl that brings happiness into our lives, not constant misery. I can’t speak for every guy , but a majority of us men want to be treated with love and respect by a girl we give our heart to , a girl that has a genuine heart with good moral values , that understands the true meaning of a relationship and commitment. A girl that can’t wait to be in our arms when we are apart from each other. That makes us her top priority the same way we make her ours. Intimacy and affection should never really be an issue between the both of you , Most of us guys’ love a girl that doesn’t really withhold intimacy and affection from us , We want a girl that gives to us the same way she wants to receive from us. A girl that doesn’t constantly bitch and complain and constantly nagging and talking negative shit to him, a girl that isn’t selfish , meaning her way or no way. If a girl can’t wear our shoes the same way she expects us to wear hers , we more than likely will leave that relationship or end up in bed with another girl that treats us with love and respect , that makes us feel wanted and valued. Most guys’ will not cheat on a girl that makes him feel wanted and valued and appreciated that doesn’t withhold intimacy and affection from him , that she loves and values as well , if he still cheats? He is a complete moron and he deserves to be treated like shit for his selfish actions and she is smart to walk away from him. No relationship is perfect but when you choose your partner and treat your partner the same way you want to be treated in return , your chances of experiencing true love will increase tremendously. Learn how to remove selfishness for each other. Basically whatever you don’t want your partner doing to you? Has to be the same exact boundaries for you as well, not the other way around. Most relationships fail because most people do not grasp this concept. Why it’s important to wear your partners’ shoes before wearing your own when it comes to making decisions. Don’t just assume what you are doing is ok especially if you told your partner it wasn’t ok for them to do. Set boundaries with each other, and follow those boundaries the same way you want your partner following them with you. If it’s not ok for your partner to do something? It’s not ok for you either.

serious · Accepted Answer

That would be subjective to a man.

As for your question subjective, in your age and in high school years boys want sex and only the physical aspect of it. It is all about hormones at that age.

However, after the age of 20-25 men would actually have standards as in what kind of woman they would want both in terms of physical and personality aspects.

Another point that is important and related to your question is how much self respect a man has and how strict/rigid he is about his standards, how open/closed minded he is. If the man is very open minded and flexible then what he would want out of a relationship would be open ended as well, it would be negotiable as well. That would also mean the type of woman he would want will also be flexible.

However, if the man is very strict, has lots of self respect, is closed minded and rigid in his thinking as far as his needs/wants from a relationship then such a man's standards will also be rigid and so the woman has to be exactly what he wanted otherwise things will never work out.

Hence there is no concrete answer as such, it really depends on the standards a man has, the type of person he is etc.

I hope this answers your question.

RespectfulGuy · Answer

At 16, yes sex. Guys at 16 dream, fantasies, and do school work thinking about sex 24/7.

And if he tasted sex before, noverty will multiply his carnal desire exponentially.

At 26, he probably has a career and start to feel lonely. This is where he wants more than sex.

Usually at this phase, he seeks a committed relationship where yes, sex is still a frequent treat.

Then at 36, he probably has a stable career and wants to "settle down". Yes, he may desire kids and hence get married. While sex is still a desired treat, he wants to add the sauses of love and affection.

Finally at 46, if he's still single, he's a depressed soul. But if he's married or in a committed relationship, then he had "enough" of sex. He still wants sex, but no more like his 16.

At 56, well, I have no answer for this age. But in my opinion, if he's still single, he's a confirmed INCEL. 😂

MrOracle · Answer

There are going to be a ton of guys who just want sex. That's not completely their fault - when a guy hits puberty, his sex drive normally skyrockets, and it's hard to think about anything else.

But there are always some guys who actually want a relationship, and you can find those guys if you make a bit of effort. Yes, they probably aren't the guys with the top looks or the top popularity or whatever, but they'll have the right morals and values, and that's what matters if a relationship is your priority.

You need to move slowly, and vet every guy thoroughly before you consider committing to him, and you must not ignore red flags that you discover about morals and values. Expect some guys to fail your vetting, and if that happens, you have to end things and move on.

That all takes work and will-power, but it's the only way you're going to be able to protect yourself from being used or committing to a guy who doesn't have long-term relationship potential. And no one else can do this for you, so if you don't do the work, or do it poorly, you will have poor results.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

Depends on the men. Truth be told you probably don’t know any - there are NO 16yr old “men”. Only boys. You find a steadily decreasing number of boys and increasing number of men as you age. By the time you are 25+ you’ll know mostly men but still a few lingering boys. Some never fully become men at all.

There is often a lot more clarity in what a man wants over what a boy wants. Boys tend to love for the moment but will be confused and sometimes say things, or take steps in a direction, that isn’t fully what they want. They may be unsure themselves what they want. Most men have enough clarity to be direct and state their intentions up front. It may be a family with kids. It may be bedding as many hot women as possible. It may be an exclusive relationship and it may be an open relationship but at least (most of the time) with a self-actualized man you know what his intentions are.

JacobJordan · Answer

Someone to love and to hold, respect and cherish, in sickness and health, for richer or poorer until death do us part. Someone to raise a family with.

Miristheiss · Answer

I've been married for several years but I just wanted a cute, sweet girl with good values who was loyal, personable who wanted a long term thing.

If she was argumentative, loud, crass, was into partying, clubbing, having a hoe phase, tattooed, pierced, sleazy values then she wasn't even on the radar.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Ask 10 guys and you will get 10 different answers as each person is an individual and likes different things. In general I think most men want good sex, love and someone they can get along well.

DrPepper12 · Answer

At your age? Sex! And then sex. After that sex. It's HARD to build emotional connections with HS boys. They grow up a bit by college but I feel for you... Sincerely, 20+ Year HS Teacher

Nirmroth · Answer

The unsatisfying answer to this is simply that it comes down to each man.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Having someone to confide in and spend time with.

dean53AU · Answer

A girl with a nice personality, good sense of humour and of course good sex too.

MatureMan40 · Answer

Some want sex, some want love, some want fun, some want friendship, etc. Just be careful and don't trust everyone not only in your age but also in your whole life.

RavVid · Answer

An agreeable co-operative girl.

Jennz6 · Answer

You should have asked guys only

AviatorTom · Answer

Companionship

shortster · Answer

Marriage and kids.

Anonymous · Answer

Love.

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