Girls, what do you want most from men in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Guys what do you think girls want from you the most...

Money

Fun/vacations/experiences

Companionship

Sex

Family/children

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+1 y

Guys they aren't lying. They just expect companionship even more than you know they expect money. Women are rapacious. If they were as horny as men they'd literally r*pe you on the street with no second thought

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+1 y

Their unrestrained nature is necessary for women to be so happy and care free. But it's also why they're so docile. Since they dont have much self control, they lack the "horse power" men have. If they had strong instincts that needed to be suppressed they'd be as miserable as men. Women's unhappiness comes from outside circumstances. From not being used by a man they desire. Men's unhappiness comes from inside, from not being able to do what he wants.

[Finchie40]

Most girls want a man she can look up to , that she can feel safe and secure and protected by , that has her back no matter what, that listens to her and understands her , a man that will climb mountains to be by her side, A man that can take lead , knowing if she falls , he is there to pick her up. A man that chooses her over anyone else. If a girl had her heart broken before by a guy she is going to have a lot of walls up protecting her heart , she won’t be as sweet and innocent like she once was before , so she will put you through tests to see if you truly do love and appreciate her , once a girl feels she has the man she has been looking for , she will treat her man like a King , She will have no problem saying No to other men , she will have no problem getting on her knees for you , A girl is not going to cheat on a man that makes her feel valued and loved and appreciated , if she does then she is a selfish whore period.

[NothingEverything]

How sweet 🥺

[Anonymous]

I think you worded the question wrong. Obviously everyone wants a loving partner long term unless you want to be a bachelor forever.

The real question you are truly asking is what exactly are women attracted to, explained in such a way as to be able to make so men understand.

I feel like that's what you're trying to find out. Maybe I'm wrong but that's all.

I think you're getting the wrong answers because you asked the wrong question. Which is fine it's hard to ask questions right.

[Anonymous]

Where is love option? I’ve never known what it feels like to be loved…I believe there is a lot of things I would want as I’ve never really had anyone.. but definitely loved would be ideal.. if you have this it’s almost for certain the rest of the things one might want and need from someone will come in line right behind it.

[ta-ra]

I choose companionship, without that the others wouldn't happen. I feel you build a stronger foundation when you not only have an attraction but a friendship 💯. Woman want to feel safe and loved from their man. Be able to depend on each other. Ride or die or nothing.

[OlderAndWiser]

Women want a man who makes them feel safe, secure, and desired.

[Asker]

Women want a man who makes others feel fear, insecure, and threatened.

[OlderAndWiser]

That is your perception.

[msc545]

Women want a man who "provides" for them - in other words, buys them expensive things and gives them money.

[OlderAndWiser]

@msc545 That describes some of them.

[msc545]

Probably the majority although I haven't counted.

[Jemini_Crocket]

I want a man who'd see me as his Queen 'cause I'd want him to be my King. xD Cheesy but I like it.
Safety, protection, companionship, great sex, knowing that I can depend on him. I'd offer him the same (intimacy, trust and more).
Finchie40 really wrote it well. :)

[Asker]

What comes first... intimacy or trust

[Jemini_Crocket]

I believe trust, I have to trust him to get intimate with him. I'm really old fashioned, it sucks sometimes.

[Asker]

So would you feel weird if you knew the guy watched porn and nutted like 5 times the day before he met you

[Jemini_Crocket]

Can't really say without it actually happening and me knowing. It's known that guys do this though.

[Asker]

I do No Nut.

[Asker]

Is that you in your pfp?

[Jemini_Crocket]

you mean my profile picture?

[Asker]

Yea.

[Jemini_Crocket]

That's me yep.

[Asker]

Can I dm you

[Asker]

You have to follow me

[Finchie40]

Thanks for the compliment , I like the King and Queen concept as well , I also consider myself old school , when it comes to relationships. Me personally is not going to get into a relationship without making her my Queen , my top priority , there would be no point being in a relationship with someone that you don’t value and prioritize that you choose over everyone else , Sadly a lot of relationships today don’t follow that concept and then they wonder why they can’t last in a relationship and wonder why they keep continuing having failed relationships or being cheated on or left for someone else. I grew up having both my parents that chose each other that prioritized each other , over everyone else and they were happily married for over 50 years , My parents had their ups and downs like most couples do , but they chose each other , no matter what obstacles they faced , Nowadays people choose someone else , thinking that someone else will save them , instead of focusing and fixing the relationship they already chose to be in already. Sadly a lot of people have a selfish mindset that have a hard time admitting they are wrong , feeling like they are always right. And justified for their own selfish actions , when people live with that mindset , they will never experience true love period

[dynamicyandere]

It’s not just one thing because many things are equally as important.


* To feel safe.
* To feel loved.
* To feel desired.
* To feel protected.
* To feel cherished.
* To experience passion, adventure, romance, excitement, fun, and happiness.

[WhitneySnow]

Companionship. I have my own money, but someday I probably want children. Sex (or at least some sexual stuff) and fun experiences are important too.

[Asker]

What does companionship entail

[WhitneySnow]

Hanging out together, talking about special stuff, confiding your feelings in each other

[Asker]

Would that include sharing interests like... I don't know... art

[WhitneySnow]

Art? Sure! Are you an artist? I bet your girlfriend would love that.

[Asker]

I'm a sex artist

[WhitneySnow]

Oh. I don't know what that is.

[Asker]

Would you like it if I drew pics of you

[WhitneySnow]

If I was your girlfriend? Like nude sexy pics? Sure! You could hang them in the bedroom where only close friends could see them.

I think most girls would be into that.

[WhitneySnow]

I disagree 100% on your updates. You can’t generalize like that, plus most women aren’t like that, anymore than most men are evil rapists.

[Asker]

I can generalize and not generalize simultaneously. Like "most public bathrooms aren't sanitary" and still have an open mind when I encounter a clean one

[WhitneySnow]

Okay. But I still disagree with your generalizations.

[Asker]

Ok fine disagree all you want. I think its pretty obvious

[Bilboes]

It should be someone who has the ability to hold a dialogue. This seems like a normal request, but a lot of people have difficulty making conversation. That s**t is insane.

[Anemone978]

Obviously the main thing I want is love and attention but must be because I am not that special I don't get that.. so what I want secondly is fun and adventure because life is way too boring without it..

[HelpfulWoman]

Why are you spamming us with this again? You aiming for a troll award?

[Asker]

It's a combo where men and women say what they want on one post

[Mamaliv]

Companionship, a partner in crime, someone just as adventurous as I am. Someone that lifts me up when times are hard and I’ll return the favor. Great sexual chemistry….

[artgorgeous]

They select all options. you should replace radio buttons with a checkbox.

[dynamicyandere]

Exactly. It’s never just one thing. They want the whole package.

[Paul_in_Indy]

Is an occasional orgasm too much to ask for? It’s shocking how many guys think that doesn’t matter.

[OfMiceandMen]

I would think trust and someone who isn't going to bail on them as soon as things aren't so rosy.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Companionship, comfort, fun, loyalty, relatability, and sex. Or at least thats what the women I like want.

[Anonymous]

Respect, love , care , compassionate, kind , supportive and educated. Money can be earned by both of us if we r educated enough.

[msc545]

It really doesn't matter what you say. Women are rapacious in regards to money and other things including sex very much, take a second place.

[whistlingwh0res]

opportunities like money, success, comfort life especially if you are living in America. teen ages giving blow job to be successful is abundant

[Anonymous]

Most women said companionship… how is that not satisfied through a standard friendship?

[Anonymous]

Does anyone really believe what 70% of the women have voted on this poll🤣🤣🤣

[Billlewis]

Attention, among other things.

[BunBun369]

My choice wasn't up there.

Honesty.

[Nikki1989]

Companionship

[FreyaRed]

Companionship and will to cooperation

[Alexz0]

Just sex at the moment.

[Anonymous]

I want all of those things.

[Asker]

You can't have it all

[Opinion Owner]

And yet millions of people do have all those things.

[Asker]

And millions dont

[Opinion Owner]

Of course, but that doesn't change the fact that it's very possible to achieve all those things. It happens thousands of times a day accross the world.

[Asker]

No it doesn't. 99% of relationships are unhappy

[Opinion Owner]

If you can provide just one authentic source that supports your bullshit claim that 99% of relationships are unhappy, I will glady buy you a car. Until then, you are just another bitter incel on the internet.

[Asker]

You don't have enough money to buy me a car

[Opinion Owner]

Oh but I do. I have more than enough money to buy you several. But I never intended to and i knew I was safe offering because you can't provide any evidence to support your bullshit claim since it doesn't exist.

get a life.

[Asker]

you're so happy in your relationship you don't even fucking have one. Loser

[Opinion Owner]

I'm married, dumbass.

You're a 100% fail.

[Asker]

you're married running around gambling your husband's money

[Opinion Owner]

It's not gambling when there is zero chance of losing.

[Asker]

It's not your money when it's your husbands

[Opinion Owner]

What makes you think it's my husband's money? Wait, don't answer... I know, it's your sexism, arrogance and ignorance. And you are wrong, of course.

[Asker]

And you're anonymous, of course

[Opinion Owner]

Is that really all you have?

[Anonymous]

Genuine care is what I feel it is

[pinconon]

family