Ladies, what is it you want from a man to be in a relationship with them?

[Pinay_ako]

[Apple1996]

A man that is calm, comforting and peaceful. I couldn't deal with a man that brought in lots of stress

[Bklynbadboy12]

I like that! 👍

[itsclearlynicholas]

And that's what I want from a woman, a short, petite, slim woman ♀️ 👄

[shoeboxcerealcard]

Anyone for that matter

[beebella]

Babies. 👶

[Fuentes]

I got you :)

[Pinay_ako]

@Fuentes lmaooooo bruhhh

[Fuentes]

Can u confirm to @beebella that I am infact not ugly and she would love me?

[Pinay_ako]

@beebella yes @Fuentes is not that bad 🤣. Nah he good.

[Fuentes]

@Pinay_ako I need the fade lol

[beebella]

@Pinay_ako Don't encourage him. 😂

[Fuentes]

@Pinay_ako "Isabella Fuentes"

[beebella]

[Fuentes]

Never say never lol

[Pinay_ako]

@Fuentes she didn’t say never 🤣

[Pinay_ako]

Omg this is funny as hell

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yessssss!

[Haraklus]

Would you three just kiss already

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I want him to have a calm attitude, I want him to be confident, strong and reliable, peaceful but not a coward, but rather a man whose peace comes from his strength.

I want him to be adventurous and mature.

I want him to know what he wants and I want him to know how to treat you lovingly and how to accept it to be loved back.

I want him to be smart and serious, but being able to be goofy and fun.

I want him to make me feel like I can put my head on his chest and forget of all my worries, because I have him by my side and there’s nothing to be afraid of when he’s here.

That’s what I look for in a relationship.

Oh and If he has broad shoulders and a strong build - That’s going to keep my eyes for him and only him.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Oh and I want him to be masculine and his presence to be respected anywhere we go,

So that when we enter the place together, other men look at him respectfully and women look at me respectfully because they see a power couple.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes 🙌 sounds specific

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Maybe because I am kind of describing someone I have liked lately.

I want my future man to have some qualities of him and some qualities of my ex, that’s what I am describing.

I am over them, but they had some amazing qualities I admired and that’s what I want in future.

[Alwayreckles93]

I learn from experience the hard way. If its meant to be with a guys it's meant to be if he doesn't see me in a romantic way and doesn't love so be it. I doesn't matter how much time I spend working out to look like a magazine model or how much time I spend in the hair salon to look good. I could have the cutiest out fit if a guy doesn't love me he doesn't love me Amd I must accept reality and not live in a delusional fantasy. My ex left me over a brown eye dark skin Guatemalan woman. Even dough I pu so much effort time and money on my looks guess what he still cheated on me.

[Dinklex3]

I have to feel secure, trust them, enjoy conversation, and enjoy just being in their company even in silence.

Health and fitness are important to me. They have to be playful, great at communicating, and be honest with me. Tell me how it is, what you’re thinking, your concerns, & if I made you feel bad in any way.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Great answer well said

[mobiusforniner]

the short answer is charisma. Any guy who has a good attitude, the ability to lead and influence others; thinks more for the common good than himself; can break a smile or laugh while still remaining calm under immense pressure, who has solid self awareness and excellent self control is irresistible to most women.

[Dan_5001]

Definitely not otherwise I would be in one.

[Cheapskate]

I want him to be tall, but also short. Confident, but also humble. A jock, but also a nerd. A bad boy, but also a good man. Hardworking, but also have time for me. Serious, but also unserious. Masculine, but also a good listener. Smart, but also dumb. Sane, but also nuts. Beautiful, but also ugly.

Where did all the good guys go?

[Pinay_ako]

They’re there somewhere

[MrOracle]

You have successfully grasped the contradictory nature of women. Most of them want EVERYTHING all at once, but even if they get it, it's never enough. That's because they are inherently unhappy and unfulfilled inside, and they expect other people to fix everything that's wrong with them, rather than understanding that fixing themselves is their OWN job.

[IslaTheWitch]

a smart, witty, funny, and challenging partner :D

[NathanDavis]

I've always given more than what they wanted

[dustybiker2]

Everyone wants to be heard, feel safe and be both respected and appreciated. If you can give those things back in return then that is a base relationship foundation.

[LaurenM1997]

For them to be there for me and be loyal and not cheat on me it’s happened too many times and for me to trust them and be in a long term relationship I’ve only been in a three month relationship it didn’t go well

[laly520]

a man who is a real man, mature, calm, provider, protector, modest

ain't consumed by lust, alcohol or drugs

im so grateful for having him

[Squatting_Slav]

Calm cool confidence, doesn't take himself seriously, stands his ground upholds his morals caring and reliable but also has a rebellious dark edge to him

[Squatting_Slav]

(From what I've observed)

[Manab]

Most women will not date a chandler until later in life as even shown in the show. Chandler was the one who struggled to find a single girlfriend and was mostly alone. Compared to that Joey had regular flings and Ross multiple marriages 😅

[Cheapskate]

There is this podcast called SmartLess, where the hosts are three actors. Apparently, one of them went to school with Matt LeBlanc, whom he described as a quiet jock type who had one girlfriend throughout high school.

[Manab]

Actors can be different in real life... I was referring to the characters

[Cheapskate]

Yeah, no shit

[bobalife]

Feels like home…
Loving, protective, reliable, committed, consistency, companionship, and safe

[Unit1]

That picture is kind of on target. The "what women really want" part varies from girl to girl however.

[hellobye76]

We want him to be caring and gentle and genuine. Not the type that goes and says the same thing to every girl.

[Keyboardkat]

Please read your question. You're asking, "What do YOU want from a man to be in a relationship with THEM?" I mean, who is "THEM" if your asking "YOU"?

[Chelsdope0]

Men who are calm and level headed bc I can be irrational at times. A man who always keeps his word… a man who is an all around good guy.


I’m not interested in relationships but I think other women should pay attention to those attributes.

[JHAYES317]

From my experience with dating apps, apparently height and a big d, both of which I lack lol

[Tikyl]

He is loving, understanding, loyal, fun, and does not run away from conflicts.

[msc545]

They want money of course. Do you really need to ask this question to find that out?

[MichelleAndy]

Hate em

[MichelleAndy]

Got a love / hate state of mind with men

[shoeboxcerealcard]

Careful. Better your language. That is the cause of sexism on your own mind. You said you hate men but they are individuals. If you don't mean all men make sure you display that in your language because your nervous system will wire exactly what you say.

Negative thinking is never going to help. Because, those negative feelings will seek expression through your actions. Negative feeling don't seek to express positive actions. They will seek to express actions that lead you literally away from what you want. Your problem isn't men. We are always our problem and always our solution. You have to accept that and take your power back.

If you want an ideal relationship, write down exactly the type of relationship you want. After you do that ask yourself what 2 people natural would be in this type of Relationship. Once you answer that you know who you need to become and what type of guy you are looking for. Say no to everybody who isn't that. But you have to know the 2 people that natural fit in your desired relationship. Otherwise, you won't even recognize the guy you want even if he is right in front of you. Most people find love via their emotions. Success doesn't work that way. It's why they often choose the wrong guy because they don't actually know what they want. They have never sat down and wrote out the type of relationship they want. So how could they possibly know the guy they are looking for. So they end up dating men who do not fit and often we don't even fit ourselves.

[Haraklus]

Why do you hate men? Just curious. I can think of some pretty understandable/valid reasons, but it varies from person to person.