Should I let my boy friend know about my lady parts?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy online about 10 months ago , and since then we talk to eachother and things seems to go very well among us. Once he asked that if I have ever looked at my lady parts to see all the parts clearly and I said that I haven't. so he asked if he could be chatting to me while Im doing that. Should I do this? He asked that 3 times and every time I refused for some reasons but I just wanna know that does it mean anything? Should I do that? And guys please tell what made you to ask such a thing from a girl? Thanks for your answers in advance.

[FilmGuy93]

Ugh... why are so many guys so weird about this stuff? He wants you to do it as some weird sexual turn-on thing for him. If you don't actively like the idea, don't do it.

[Asker]

So its not just me thinking that its weird? Is it really weird? When i asked him why? He said he is just curious. He wouldn ask this if he loved me right?

[FilmGuy93]

It's not just you. Whether he loves you or not has nothing to do with it; a lot of guys just have no social skills whatsoever.

In addition to fact he's asking you a weird question (why the fuck would you ever examine your own privates in the mirror?), he genuinely thinks it's okay for him to then repeatedly ask you to do it while talking to him, and he's ignoring the fact that you obviously don't want to do it.

[Asker]

Yes , you are right thanks , well when I again asked the reason he said its my body and I should know that better... well many times he told me that he masterbutes by thinking of me , is that bad too? Based on information that I have from this guy I feel like he wants to know about my lady parts just bcoz to think about that while masterbution , this is not normal right?

[FilmGuy93]

Definitely not okay. But probably more “normal” than it should be in the sense that it’s too common. If he wants something to masturbate to, he can find it from someone who is on OnlyFans

[Asker]

So doesn't it mean anything that he wants to do that with me not with others on OnlyFans?

[FilmGuy93]

No. He said that to you because you happen to be there.

[FilmGuy93]

Not because you are special in his mind

[Asker]

Thanks

[FilmGuy93]

Happy to help. Best of luck!

[Catsarecool123]

Just gonna say that no means no lol. Seems like a weird thing that he’s into. If you aren’t comfortable don’t do it, period. Never let anyone take advantage of you (sexual wise) because they want to see a certain something. If he is persistently asking then that’s pretty weird

[spartan55]

You really never looked?

[panamared1]

He wants to see you nude

[panamared1]

Do you want him to see you

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

No, don't

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer. Well could you please tell your reasons?

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

I just don't think you should, sorry

[In_Trance]

Wtf even is this?