How do I know as a female if I’m actually attractive on dating apps?

[Anonymous]

Do guys just swipe and super like everyone? Don’t know if I should feel special or not

Guys swipe on everyone

Guys swipe on hot girls mainly

Guys are picky too

Updates

2 mo

Don’t feel comfortable showing my pictures but a brief:

Big eyes, long lashes, clear skin—no makeup at all, hour glass shape, boobs as big as my head and heart shaped butt. I look around 17 even though I’m in my 20s + I’m tanned

[DaveJord]

I do not understand what you mean by guys swipe... I mean if you as women are not getting like 20 likes a day then your profile needs work... because out of all the women I dated from online got lots of attention from men. Lots of unwanted attention and had dozens of men to choose from and daily bases.

Now I definitely swiped on ugly chicks, and definitely swiped on women that some would consider very pretty... but those model-like pictures are scammers or women I am not interest in. So average to better than average looking women get kits daily by the dozens. Most from losers they would never date or even consider talking too... but they get a shit ton of attention.

[summiter]

U sound hot to me. Horny guys (which are most guys will swipe on anyone because all they ant is sex. I wish people would just be honest and not brag on Tinder. Do u have a boyfriend right now? what does he have to say? DM me if you want to chat about this in more detail...

[vickiezalez]

I hate to say this but post pics so the guys can rate you. I'm a lesbian but my opinion might not be worth much😂

[Asker]

I don’t wanna get bullied lol 😅😩

[horatiohornblower]

Guys start out as selective on dating apps. Then since women never respond. After a couple days they stop being selective. Carpet bombing by swiping just about everyone. Then might be selective in replying after getting two or three responses from their 10K swipes.

[Guy13]

That's only measurable by the Likes that end up as dates. I don't know any other way to determine this. Anyone can swipe on their couch during commercials...

[Asker]

Ouch

[Guy13]

Didn’t mean to be ouch. Boy experience watching them snd comments tossing me the phone kind of playing.

[SupiMomo]

Dating apps are not a good source to tell if your'e attractive or not. Your text description also isn't good enough, people need a pic.

Closest you can get to knowing is posting your picture with a quick poll and avoid telling it is your own picture to keep the objectivity of the responses.

[misogynistic_pig]

I swipe all the profiles to the right, since I'm lazy to read descriptions, when I have a match, I check the profile, and if the woman is ugly or transgender, I don't answer her messages.

[Asker]

So that’s why I don’t get replies :(

[RockyHammock]

You will never know if you're better than average from a dating app as a girl.

The real test is how often do guys blatantly hit on you irl?

[Asker]

I have old ugly men and men who barely speak English that asks me for my number

[RockyHammock]

So either you're impossibility hot and dudes are intimated by you, or well.. you know.

[Asker]

When guys talk to me they get nervous and voice gets high pitched, if I approach. Them and I get called “wife material” and then I get ghosted and really hot guys always ask to be friends with benefits. It’s like if someone is so attractive wouldn’t you want to snatch them up as soon as possible not say “omg you’re so amazing, you’re wife material BYE”

[RockyHammock]

Interesting, I'm curious though. What do you consider to be wifey material?

[Asker]

I’m a virgin not even a make out, I’m in my 20s, I’m very attentive, always asking him questions and trying to figure him out, buy him food and random surprises, smile when I see them. I spend all my time with my old fashioned mom so I have views about being traditional but I am very generous

[RandomGuy1030]

50% of girls guys see on apps, they swipe right on. The reason is because guys just want to match with someone. So the more people they swipe on the better. A 10/10 guy will swipe right on a 5/10 girl.

[es20490446e]

The algorithm of dating apps is designed in such a way to prevent you from finding your idea partner.

[Anonymous]

Show us a picture, we'll let you know whether you're a hottie or not

[Asker]

Big eyes, long lashes, clear skin—no makeup at all, hour glass shape, boobs as big as my head and heart shaped butt. I look around 17 even though I’m in my 20s + I’m tanned

[Shamalien]

A woman should never trust what she experiences on a dating app. Men are so fking desperate on these things

[msc545]

Just post your dating app pics here, and we will all tell you!

[Asker]

Big eyes, long lashes, clear skin—no makeup at all, hour glass shape, boobs as big as my head and heart shaped butt. I look around 17 even though I’m in my 20s + I’m tanned

[msc545]

A verbal description is not really helpful

[Pohjolan]

Simple, you don't use filters.

[Asker]

Ugh that’s hard