Why do some guys over do it with compliments? it turns me away when they over do it what does it mean?

[laurlaur101]

[urpapi69]

How do they over compliment?

[laurlaur101]

This one person keeps saying love, baby girl etc we aren’t together so I don't know if they’re up to something or just really genuinely like me I don't know I don’t trust people

[urpapi69]

Maybe it's because you have trust issues. Wanna talk?

[laurlaur101]

Yeah I do bc someone who I met seemed interested in me talking to me for a few weeks hung out twice this was in summer than just ghosted me made it really hard on me till this day still wondering what happened I don’t dislike this person but just very disappointed in them not how I thought they would turn out to be after being nice when we met but maybe was all an act after all but I don't know there’s tons of reasons but I don't know why I don’t want to just assume it’s bc of one thing only I even didn’t expect to meet the person in the first place and didn’t expect for them to leave an impact on me like this so just after that I don’t trust anything just ruined it for me I don’t want to approach or try for any relationships again bc of it I don't know what’s real anymore the worst of it is I don’t even feel any type of feelings for anyone at all rn even if I did I’d be afraid to make a move bc of what happened.

[laurlaur101]

I don’t want to risk losing more people I don’t want that to happen there are people that I really care about it too scared rn

[urpapi69]

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