So men care about how much a woman makes?

[Anonymous]

I’m always insecure about this. I’m a single mom who makes decent money and provides for my daughter and my self on my own without child support.
My credit took a big his being a single mom and goi g through pregnancy alone , setting up alone for the baby, and being sick and time off during the pregnancy. It’s rebuilding, but sometimes hard.

I always worry men won’t want me for those thing 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Anonymous]

No, men don't care about how much you earn.

"Researchers have discovered that women are far more likely to find rich men attractive. However this isn't true in reverse, they say."

https://www.newshub.co.nz/home/world/2018/01/women-are-more-attracted-to-rich-men-scientists.html

There are countess other studies that support the same conclusions.

Most women today don't understand what men want from women. They try to measure their own value based on the same things women value in men. But you need to understand that men and women value very different things in each other.

Men don't want a provider. They want a woman who offers the things men value in women, not the ones women value in men.

[MrCommodore]

I've never honestly cared about a woman's income (If I like her romantically), I just focused on getting my own financial affairs in order and future security. The rest takes care of itself.

[Berethor]

Most gold diggers are female, the real problem is being a single mom, men don't like that.

[Asker]

Why don’t men like that?

[Berethor]

Because a man don't want to raise child of other man, it's too much baggage.

[Soapwithsoap]

I don't care how much she is making as long as she is earning something doing honest job.

[KrakenAttackin]

Deciding to become a single mother is an ultra-selfish decision to start. Now you want some rando-simp to pay for your mistakes a selfishness?

[Asker]

I didn’t decide to be a single mom. Her dad met another woman while he was away at work. I was 3 months pregnant… we were together 6 years. It wasn’t my choice.. thank you for the judgement.

[KrakenAttackin]

Stop chasing Chad's, marry before your carry... too late for both. Good luck, only simps will do anything but have sex with single mothers.

[Asker]

Not sure if you read.. we were together for 6 years. I wasn’t chasing.
He also has her 50/50 I just don’t ask him for child support and pay my own way. I don’t want a man to pay my way through life. I also don’t want a man to be a care taker or a provider to my daughter. I was just hoping g men don’t think lowly of single moms. Clearly they do. Thank you for that.

[KrakenAttackin]

Sorry, not sorry, single mothers are not what men of value want. Don't worry, there are plenty of simps who will have you.

[Asker]

So because I got left for another woman while I was pregnant while in a serious long-term relationship.. I have no worth then?

[KrakenAttackin]

How about you focus on your CHILDREN rather than trying to get hot D?

[Asker]

* child. Also she is my primary focus. I do everything I can to support her , put her in classes , take her on trips , things outdoors, teach her all that I can. She is my focus. That doesn’t mean I don’t want a partner to share my life with. I’ve been single for 3 years because I’ve put her first. Her time with her dad is the time I get to have a life.
You’re not a very kind person are you. Very judgmental and have no consideration for others feelings. Being honest is one thing , but you’re actually quite cruel.

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... I'm not here to pump sunshine up your ass. There are too many bullshit stories like yours, "I was such a good wife and mother, and Chad left me for another woman". Think about what part YOU played in his leaving, have some accountability and learn from that.

[Danael31]

I don't care. But if we want to live together and/or have children, my only income won't be enough so there would be a problem. But if she got something, even if it's lower than me, I'm cool with it.

[UncleBilll]

nope, as long as she is good in bed and submissive

[Iron_Man]

No, I don’t care. It’s about the person not how much money she makes.

[Anonymous]

Not really as long as you don’t become a burden if they become involved, nobody checks your credit getting into a relationship

[Asker]

True but to ever invest together like buying a house let’s say

[Opinion Owner]

Well you probably would have plenty of time to fix your credit before that time would come, like 2 years before you would consider buying a house together, it also depends on who has better credit and sometimes you just mortgage with one person and not both

[Lunatic1]

If you are taking care of business, then a real man won't care

[exitseven]

it never enters my mind.