Why would an ex think your trying to get their attention or want their attention just because you were in their neighborhood walking?

[ShateriaNorman1]

My ex boyfriend accused me yesterday of so called wanting his attention or thought I needed to talk to him or say something to him just because I was in his neighborhood walking minding my business which isn’t the case because usually if I needed to talk to him or something I would have reached out to him on social media or I would have just came to his house. It’s weird because he was watching and looking at me while having a whole conversation with another person standing outside in his front yard and he decided to text me a hour later after walking in his neighborhood to wait on my friend who lives near him to ask me what is it that I wanted because he also said now you have my attention so wassup and I was lost on why he felt the need to text me that bs

[Guy13]

I can see it from both perspectives as you are walking your dog in his neighborhood and that is very convenient. It looks like you are checking on him and happen to be doing it when he is talking to other women. There's more coincidences than this in here but you get the point.

I can also understand if you live in the next neighborhood and want to get some exercise. Or, if you have family or friend business there. I would be very careful to stay far away as possible and walk on the other side of the neighborhood away from his house.

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, I can see his point. There isn't any other neighborhood you can walk in? You had to pick that one?

[ShateriaNorman1]

I was over their for a reason yesterday was my birthday and one of my close friends lives over their me and her was supposed to hang out for my birthday yesterday and she lives on the same street as him I was waiting on her to come outside to meet me so that we could walk back to my house because I literally live down the street from that neighborhood or around the corner basically and I guess my ex was watching he or seen me and decided to text me asking me what is it that I wanted because now I have his so called attention as he stated in the message so I’m not sure why he would think I needed to talk to him or needed something because if I did then I would have simply reached out to him on social media or I would have simply just walked to his house and he knows that because I don’t usually be in his neighborhood at all especially not looking for his attention he’s just having a hard time minding his business

[Stevefiveo]

Oh I see your point too then.

[Wise4myage]

Wishful thinking, lol. And they probably haven't gotten over you yet.

[ShateriaNorman1]

I don’t know what’s his deal I literally was walking over their because yesterday was my birthday and one of my friends live on the same street as him so I was coming over their to pick her up I’m guessing he noticed me or saw me and decided to text me a hour later asking me what is it that I wanted because now I have his so called attention as he stayed when he texted me but mind you this is the same ex boyfriend who decided to stalk my stories a few weeks and even months ago and decided to hide them but felt obligated to continue to watch mines every time I posted and is the same ex who texted me about this nonsense yesterday

[Anonymous]

**Alert** stage 5 stalker!

[ShateriaNorman1]

I literally was in his neighborhood waiting on one of my friends because yesterday was my birthday and she lives on the same street as my ex and as I was walking pass by I guess he noticed me or saw me and decided to text me a hour later after leaving from the neighborhood what is it that I wanted because now I so called has his attention as he stated in the message and I’m just like what makes you think that I need or want your attention if I wanted to say something or needed to talk to you then I would have reached out on social media or I could have simply walked straight to your house that I passed by already

[FunkyMonkee]

Narcissism.

[ShateriaNorman1]

Lol 😂 now he’s asking me am I showing people his house or where he lives mine you I don’t know his address by heart and I’m not the type to do dumb shit like that plus I have respect for his household

[FunkyMonkee]

Oh! He's paranoid, too!! Probably the worst kind of narcissist!