Ok so my 3rd long term ex basically hacked my shit when we were together and he'd monitor my phone, Facebook and emails. He was controlling and didn't allow me to hang with friends male or female, he'd drive any friends away by being a jerk on purpose, didn't want me going to school, was hung up on his ex and allowed his brother to be a dick to me. After we broke up he started being all buddy buddy with my second long term ex who had a vendetta against me Bc I broke up with him Bc he was pretty much a jerk. He put his friends and life first didn't take me out on dates, had a history of cheating on his exes, admitted to making me jealous on purpose and always made me uncomfortable Bc he'd comment about how I was rich and how he conned favors and free shit out of me. I broke up and a year and a half into a relationship with boyfriend number 3 he'd email boyfriend number 3s brother about how he wished bad things on me. I guess when boyfriend number 3 and I broke up he was mad I didn't regret dumping him, idk? Well anyway boyfriend number 3 acted weird before we broke up. He made indications and said and did weird things that lead me to realize he was hacking my shit and he basically would argue/put me down for no reason and then he dumped me with a bullshit excuse and then wanted to be friends on his terms. I kinda ignored him after we broke up Bc I was scared of him and we'll be broken up 5 years in January but for some reason he wants me to come see him and I don't. I'm sick of this baby shit. Who gave him the right to hack my emails I didn't cheat, I spent money on him and went all out for him. He seemed to be pissed at me for mourning 9 months after my dads death and basically left me Bc I wouldn't get over it right away and resume watching horror movies and getting fucked up like old times.
Why would your exes gang up on you?
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What kind of men are you allowing in your life? Do you realize that this is not about them? It's about you!! Don't allow any man to take advantage of you. No man should be living off you. Stop taking care of these men. Don't let people know you have money. Change ALL of your passwords and DO NOT let any man have access to your personal stuff. Let those exes talk about you. In anyone's eyes, these are not real men. They are scavengers, opportunists, and deadbeats. Take a good look at what you date and ask yourself why you do it? Low self esteem?0
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