Just a question?

[kacr10]

Soo, there's this guy who is kinda cute and every single time him or one of his friends see me they feel the need to say my name. And they take a deep breath as I walk by. And occasionally I hear a guy say "Damn" as I walk past them.

[SnowedIn]

They think you're hot. The deep breath and saying your name is a physical manifestation of them admiring you.

[kacr10]

Thank you! But I don't understand because apparently I'm ugly. But thanks.

[SnowedIn]

I strongly doubt you are ugly! :) Remember that we are always harder on ourselves that others in terms of looks. But, also, different people have different likes. One person might think you're ugly. Those guys probably think you're cute.

[kacr10]

That is true like my friends are always saying I'm cute but I don't see it. Thanks!

[SnowedIn]

yw! My advice is to assume they like you/think you're cute until you have evidence otherwise.

Or, if you want to have some fun, the next time you hear them say "damn" as you walk by, turn to them and say, "Right? I AM hot. What are you doing on Saturday?" You'll either end up with a date, a laugh and a great fun, or two teenage boys will crumble into an embarrassed quivering blob and you'll forever have the upper hand with them.

[kacr10]

OK I will consider. But I'm never going to be able to go on a date. BC of my parents sooo yeahhh

[SnowedIn]

yeah. I'm sorry. I legit get it. I'm sorry about that... while I respect your parents' right to make parenting choices, the dating one is not one you'll find me agreeing with. Our kids need to be able to date, and to do it with our support.

[kacr10]

If only my parent's thought like you. They say it's because we're not trustful.

[SnowedIn]

I'm sorry. Can't trust until you trust. That's on me as a parent. I have to trust you first. Then, if you break it, it's on you. :)

[kacr10]

That's what I say. But yeah. What am I supposed to do.

[SnowedIn]

First, thank you for MHO.

And, yeah, I know. Your question was, I suspect, rhetorical. But the answer is earn their trust.

And, you know, when the cute guy happens to be at the mall at the same time as you coincidentally...

[kacr10]

Thanks! But that's the thing my parents don't let us earn their trust.

[SnowedIn]

I have no words. Just... blah. and, I'm really sorry. That sucks. 😥

[Nurse_Meyers_88]

Sounds like they like you

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

They think you are cute/ attractive

[Ckendrick06]

They think your cute

[Paulychicagoluv]

They like you