Would you want a guy that is dominant or a guy that is equal to you or a guy that you control?

[jennifer_bloom]

I hate when my parents try to control me so I want a guy who respects my boundaries and does not force me into stuff I do not like, such as asking me to go on 14 hour plane rides when I'm scared of airplanes, asking me to cook foods I hate cause he likes to eat it, demanding I get up at 2 in the morning during a vacation because he wants to film a mountain top sunrise or save on airfare costs. Or forcing me to eat ramen noodles for lunch to save money when I prefer salad because it's healthier.

[serious]

Yes this surely sounds like a controlling behavior and your expectation of wanting a guy who respects your wishes is very right and reasonable.

[serious]

Thanks for the MHO

[inhua]

that doesn't sound like forcing. sounds more like suggesting

[TinaLeeDawn]

I'd rather it be an equal thing. I don't want to be dominated but I don't want to date a wimp either.

[Brooke425]

I prefer someone I can control and dominate

[cjtron]

problem is, you can't control someone... thats a toxic relationship, period. You can ask and expect them to but you can't just get a guarantee! Would you expect someone else to control you and tell you what you can't or can do or how to do things just because you entered a releationship with them...

[cjtron]

in the end, when you try to control someone else, it never ends well, cause its toxic to begin with

[nooneforget2000]

Women should like a guy who is dominant over them.