Individual guys vary, but we basically all have the following in common:
1. An urge to do SOMETHING that fulfills us, that scratches this natural itch men have to seek glory or whatever you want to call it. We crave things that make us feel like our ancestors did while hunting, exploring, playing sports, etc. Even making music or art can fulfill it. Often, it's tons of things. We absolutely HAVE TO HAVE challenges to overcome or we start breaking down. And modern society doesn't give all of us much chance to actually meet this need, so many of us often live at least partly on edge while craving this.
2. We love comradery with other guys, and that's even more true when the women around us tend to exclude us.
3. We love being alone, like a lot... for long stretches of time... sometimes for days. And often we don't even ahve to be doing much of anything, hence fishing and gaming being so common. But then we also love being around certain people who have become special to us.
4. We want sex almost constantly, but then the moment we have that release, we calm down A LOT. So many, perhaps most, of us are at least a little wired unless we happened to have morning sex or something.
5. We are ALWAYS having to hold back to avoid hurting people. Holding back our thoughts, our true opinions, our strength, our urges. Most of us exercise an extreme dergee of self control, and the ones who don't make us all look bad. That's why we can get so nutty when we let loose with our guy friends and why we love things like sports where we can hold nothing back. It seems like most women don't realize just how much we hold back everyday.
6. We think a ton of random shit everyday that women might never think we would and has absolutely nothing to do with anything dirty or evil. Random shit like if an animal couod ever evolve that actually flies by flapping its ears like Dumbo. But yeah, then the next thought might be about wishing we could find a girl with some nice titties. Then the next thought could be about quantum mechanics.
7. While most of us fantasize about having harems of voluptuous women, that all goes away the moment we find a single good woman we actually care about. And losing her is enough to break some men permanently. As mean or tough as we might seem, we might actually be barely holsing ourselves together.
This is verrrrry insightful
Oh, and at least a dozen times a day we have to deal with our balls being in a bad spot and/or sweaty and hot, so we have to do a ton of covert adjustments and some that might be less covert. And we have to sit certain ways to either avoid sweat in out crack and balls or to avoid crushing the boys. Like, everything we do is affected by them: sitting, lying down, walking, running. So it's a wee bit annoying when women are always complaining about their boobs 😂 I think a lot of guys wish our reproductive organs were retractable like switchblades lmao
Haha I didn’t know that
It depends on the man. A lot of men, you get ones aren’t like those my age or older. I work maybe 24-32 hours OT every two weeks. Work is very important to me. I believe I’m a hard worker, not just at work but at home as well. My girl doesn’t work, it’s been like that for 13 years. She takes care of the house, the dogs, cooking, laundry, etc. Not cause I make her but because she wants to. She’s happy at home w the dogs, kids are grown up. I also have yard work to do, sucks especially when it’s summer here in Phoenix where it gets up into the triple digits. I remember one year when my daughter was younger and her mom made her clean up the kitchen and wash dishes, before we had a dishwasher, she was upset w having to do it. So I took her outside w me the next day at 6 am to start yard work, reached I believe it was 112 degrees. Finished by mid afternoon. I asked her so do you want to do that all the time or be inside. She picked inside lol haven’t heard a complaint since when she helped her mom after that. I also build stuff, fix things around the house. As far as having bitches lol no I don’t, when I was younger yes a few. As far as urgent sure I seen women all the time who is like to fuck. Sexually yes I’d like it more than we do have it, it’s maybe 2-3 times a weeks but she does makeup for it w a blowjob. I’m ok being alone for days, maybe weeks but she isn’t. So there has to be a balance there. She knows when I’m hard at work doing something so she doesn’t interrupt. I don’t get lonely, never really crave intimacy aside from sex. I work hard but we always take time to go somewhere for a few days or a week to be together away from everything. I feel like I’m one of not so many men who was raised to be what I think a man is. I hold a lot of my thoughts on cause people, especially women get their feelings hurt. For instance, a co-worker who I talk to a lot told me she noticed when she looked in the mirror that she gained some weight. Which I don’t think she did she’s petite, pretty face. I said ok chipmunk joking. She’s like that’s not nice. I said I’m joking. Women take things to serious, they have no sense of humor that’s why you never really see funny, female comedians. At the same time she has to understand that’s me teasing her cause I care about her as more than a co-worker. As a friend cause she’s always been good to me. I don’t show stress or stress out because I don’t want her to ever think something wrong. But most men tend to get quite or retreat to their corner to figure things out when something needs to be dealt w. There’s a lot of things I don’t want to do but I do it because that’s what I’m supposed to do as a man who takes care of his family. I don’t get on YouTube making a video about how stressful life is and crying to quit my job and seeking validation. Like the saying goes, be like a duck, on the surface of the pond look like you’re swimming w ease, under water kick your feet like crazy.
Also let me say this, the analogy of being a duck. My life isn’t chaotic, I’m not under stress or things like that 24/7, it’s just when things go a little crazy that’s when I refer to that analogy. But things, life has gotten easier as I’ve gotten older. Not to mention having spent 10 years in the military w all the crazy fucked yo shit that I’ve seen, nothing in the civilian life has come close to that.
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1. Honestly, YES! I know it's wrong, but I can't help myself. I get bored easily so I need to change things up, plus it's fun and interesting. But I often do worry that I might not be able to stay loyal to one woman if I were to enter into a serious relationship.
2. Well, not ALL the time, but A LOT, yes😂
3. Honestly yes. This may sound pathetic, but I actually like venting to women to get sympathy from them, and I enjoy watching what one would consider "feminist porn" and I get most turned on from people I feel an intense emotional connection with.
4. It's stupid. If it was up to me, I would completely eliminate the concept of money and revert back to a bartering and favor for a favor system. Why should someone with less money have less opportunities? We're all humans. Everyone should be able to live on the beach if they want to.
5. I look at work as a necessity or something to pass the time. Like if I could live my dream life without having to work, I would. I believe life's too short to waste it on work, and I also see people working their asses off with nothing to show for it. Maybe I'm not necessarily opposed to work, but I believe there should be a balance of work and fun and society shouldn't expect you to work full time from 16 til you're fucking 70
6. It would be nice, but it's too tedious. Ideally I'd love someone to just come knocking on my door. I find it easier to open up and learn about people online. In America you basically have to ask out a stranger THEN get to know them. I don't like that. I believe you should know someone well before dating them, but getting to know someone takes time.
Damn didn’t know you had bitches 😂
If that's the terminology you want to use, sure😂
Loooool
I want to love one woman with all of my being, but they don't want anything to do with me.
Sucks to exist most of the time.
I tried to kill myself again 2 weeks ago because I'm sick of being alone for 42 years. I tried taking all of my prescription meds at once for 2 weeks worth and hoped it would kill me. My stomach rejected the medication about 30 minutes later and I vomitted it up instead. I really wish now that I had died when I was an infant, since most of my life has consisted of me wishing to meet a good woman, but being rejected by every woman I ever met.
Wow. I’m so sorry
First of all, I don't call women "bitches"
Second, everyone has sexual urges. But if you're emotionally involved with your goals you have way less of them.
Third: Why would I feel lonely? That is a choice.
Fourth: I love money and love earning it but it isn't my master.
Fifth: I don't call something I love work
Sixth: Finding a partner is easy once you aren't relying on people to be superman/woman. I don't need someone to earn any money and all that other bs other people need. All I need from a woman is for her to truly love me and show it in her behavior.
Sorry I think I’m funny sometimes 😂😂😂
I'll answer them one by one princess rapunzel 😄
I do not have any b*tch because i seek for love and not only for sex!
I used to have sexual urges all the time but now nope, maybe because i'm 37 but i do have the urge of love and being in love all the time, the urge to have a wife (companionship) all the time...
About being lonely, when it comes to romance, sex, love... etc i always feel lonely and missing something...
Now about money, i just hope that our country's economics gets better because we are diving deeper and deeper in hell and things are becoming really really hard, our currency will soon become worth a paper nothing more, do not have any value!
About work, well i'm always doing something, i always find a way to earn money (ofc in a good way)...
Finding a partner, that's my ultimate goal, byt i want a real partner, a forever partner without an expiry date...
Nice :)
I'd say it depends on the guy.
Personally, I love being a guy. I'd never want to be a woman. I don't call women b****es unless they truly earn that term. No I don't really have urges, at least none I can't HANDle. I almost never feel lonely. And I have enough people that love and care about me. So no, I never crave emotional intimacy. How do I feel about money? I think it's a necessary evil. To quote the band Silverchair "You say that money isn't everything, but I'd like to see you live without it". I work to live not live to work. I worked hard when I was younger so I don't have to now. Finding a partner? I'm done trying. If it happens it happens. But I'm not looking for it actively anymore. 🙂
Tbh ma'am as a man nobody cares about your feelings. We might be dying from inside but if u ask a man how's going buddy he would just say all good. Coz he know nobody gives a damn about anything
Oh no I didn’t know that
Do you have a lot of bitches?
No.
Do you have urges ALL THE TIME?
No.
Do you ever feel lonely and crave emotional intimacy?
what do you think!
How do you feel about money?
In reality money is power and power is satisfaction
Work?
Didn’t get the opportunity to work.
And finding a partner?
I quit on that years ago.
It's AWESOME!
1. Lots of? Not any more.
2. Urges all the time? Nope
3. Feel lonely? Rarely
4. Crave emotional intimacy? Not really
5. Money? It is a useful tool.
6. Work? Not thrilled, but it helps generate #5
7. Finding a partner? Easy. Keeping one is the hard part.
Sad, tired & lonely. What's it like being woman? Do you go to get your nails and hair done weekly. Monthly go to the spa. Tell the maid to pick your groceries or laundry. Or tell the nanny to take the kids to the park or to school?
What’s it like being a woman!!! I’ll explain.
Being a woman is nice because you take care of yourself every day - for instance I shower, do my hair and skin care (sometimes makeup) every morning. I put on a cute outfit every day even if I’m just lounging in the house and always thinking about what I want to get next - I hear bootcut jeans are in right now. Pink lipstick for the spring time sounds nice. I text my friend and ask her what she thinks and then I make my purchase.
I look nice before I leave the house and honestly it delays me but I enjoy the process. While im out, a lot of men admire me and sometimes I get hit on. It’s very nice for my self esteem but it also emphasises a little bit of loneliness in me because 90% of the time these men are married or literally out with their partners. It makes me wonder if an honest man exists.
Then I come home and do my night time routine. Basically shower, use products to keep my skin soft and get into a cute pyjama set or if im feeling sexy, a lingerie set. I contemplate eating because I don’t want to get fat - as you know there’s pressure on us to look a certain way.
The loneliness hits me and I wonder why I don’t have anyone right now to hold me tight, appreciate me or just listen to me about how my day went. I then start dwelling on all my exes and fight the urge to not check their social media’s or reach out. I try to think about the future and what kind of man I want to be with…but not too much because it scares me. I’m 25 when will I have kids? Women are fighting against a biological clock but there’s only so much I can do.
And that’s how my life is as a woman. When it comes to money and work - it’s subjective. For me, I’m very career driven and I love making my own money. I think without that aspect I’d be very depressed. It’s something I look forward to, climbing up the career ladder. But sometimes I wonder if I had a man who would take care of our basic necessities like household bills, how nice
It would be to cook for him and look nice for him. I’d still work but I’d spend more time creating a home for him and taking care of him.
So I was half right. What kind of work do you do? And why do you own a gun?
Don’t have a gun
Can I borrow yours? LOL!
I know if I called a girl that she’ll be ready to fight straight up. Why do I need more than 1 girl? Guys can be extremely competitive with everything. Like when I play basketball with a man or woman it’s a competition to me even when a girl thinks cause she plays in college that makes her greater
I don’t have any bitches, but do have a lot of friends with benefits. I crave intimacy and sex all the time but that’s only a Sext or phone call away. I took and early retirement, have enough money not to worry about it.
Wow good for you I love that
Bitches take time, so I try to stick to the ones that are worth it.
Urges? Few times a day.
Money/Work? You do what you gotta do until you are comfortable with what you got.
Everyone's different, in the end we work with the hand we are dealt.
i think one big difference is being able to walk alone outside at night without feeling unsafe. i think a lot of women generally couldn't do that
Definitely don’t feel that way at all. I panic every time I’m out and it’s past 10pm. I’m more careful about my surroundings. However generally speaking as a woman I’m always careful about my surroundings. For example locking my car doors straight away when I get in.
It's tough sometimes. And it's equally confusing and anger inducing when we are often rejected for the wrong guys.
I mean do we have to get drunk and do drugs to impress a woman, lol
I don’t like drunk guys who do drugs
Are you sure 🤨
Believe me I don’t
Haven't you dated one ever?
I have and guess why I dumped them. They were mentally unstable
But in our younger years during which we form our first opinions on dating, we see bad boys winning.
It's like we don't even exist.
Yeah but I’ve gotta be honest with you. On the other hand not many women feel attracted to a pushover
True.
It's not easy for guys to have bitches like girls can easily have a guy. I remember a girl changed her sex and became a man. After 1 month she took her life cause she couldn't handle how men are treated.
It is pretty difficult to be a man, especially when everyone blames you for everything that has ever gone wrong with the world
Well, as a man, i need to be smart. I can have sex with any woman (if I'm able to seduce her), without being labelled as a slut. Nobody pays me anything. I'd have sex with any hot girl
I can answer anything if you want. Too much to answer here though lol
It feels great. It's like automatically being more talented than half the world
m it feels normal
Hairy. VERY hairy.
Oh dear
Haha I see!!
depends on which age group you ask
Definitely.
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