What's the hardest part about being a man?

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MrChinaski · Accepted Answer

The Man Box Self-sufficiency: A man who talks a lot about his worries, fears, and problems shouldn’t really get respect; Men should figure out their personal problems on their own without asking for help. Acting tough: A guy who doesn’t fight back when others push him around is weak; Guys should act strong even if they feel scared and nervous inside. Physical attractiveness: It is very hard for a man to be successful if he doesn’t look good; A guy who spends a lot of time on his looks isn’t very manly; Women don’t go for guys who fuss too much about their clothes, hair and skin. Rigid gender roles: It is not good for a boy to be taught how to cook, sew, clean the house or take care of younger children; A man shouldn’t have to do household chores; In heterosexual relationships, men should really be the ones to bring money home to provide for their families, not women. Homophobia and Transphobia: A gay guy is not a “real man”; A transgender man is not a “real man”; It’s not OK for straight guys to be friends with gay guys; It’s not OK for straight guys to be friends with trans or gender diverse people. Hypersexuality: A “real man” has as many sexual partners as he can; A “real man” would never say no to sex. Aggression and control: Men should use violence to get respect if necessary; In heterosexual relationships, a man should always have the final say about decisions in his relationship or marriage; If a guy has a girlfriend or wife, he deserves to know where she is all the time. Ref:

dudeinohio · Accepted Answer

Having to suppress emotions and always appear in control of a situation.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

The hard part about being a man is the everything about it. Each little thing isn’t so bad. But when you add everything together and punctuate it with this simple truth: nobody is coming to save you. Then it can be tough at times.
As i often repeat, nothing is all good and nothing is all bad. The good thing about forcing men to swim or sink is that all the small trials and tribulations prepare us gradually for greater trials and tribulations. The bad thing is that there’s no built-in training for major trials and tribulations and if they come out of sequence, there still are no safety nets. We literally kill the wolf or the wolf kills us. Sometimes the wolf just leaves us for dead and our tribe abandons us because they have no use for weak or incompetent men.
This is something that the left has actually defended and overdeveloped. Now we have nearly whole generations of men who are useless to themselves and the world around them when it really matters, but boy can they whip up some mean bagel bites, kick ass at “Fortnite” and cry at all the right parts of “The Notebook”. 😂😂😂
Finding the right balance between the capabilities to destroy everyone and everything and the will to never use it is nigh impossible. Most guys mostly get it right but most people only remember when they get it wrong. Like that old saying, “One ‘oh shit’ wipes out ALL your ‘attaboys’”.

ohsheeT · Answer

I've never been anything else so I don't have anything to compare to and no matter what it is you're taking on. I really have to think about this one because I don't have a clue.

And i'm thinking about it , i'm thinking even if I could find something to say , I don't know if I would because compared to what you guys go through , we have an easy we have made

So, even though I truly can't think of anything. Illuminator when I would think of it would be so petty to compared to what you guys go through

Bricealan · Answer

@simslover92 Can't think of one Single' thing, as there are many, as women have many hard things to deal with.  It sounds very ' self-serving ' and very  'micro' focused , but one hard thing for ME personally,  has been,  ever since I was very young, (22 ) not being able to perform sexually under some new and different circumstances. T hat sounds very juvenile, I know,  but for men that have that kind of problem, it can be really devastating at those times when it occurs. Women feel that they are not attractive to you and it can hurt a relationship Other than that, financial pressure in marriage, stress in bringing up a family  I hope this does not sound very trivial

MontBlanc · Answer

One of the hardest parts is the pressure to always “have it together” , to be strong, decisive, and in control emotionally and practically.

It can make vulnerability feel risky, and expressing doubt, fear, or insecurity sometimes seems like a weakness. Balancing that expectation with being authentic and emotionally present is a constant challenge.

4ngelic · Answer

as a woman, i'd say it's probably that they can't just show certain emotions as freely as women can and are shamed for being in need of help, that it's harder for them to get laid or get a date, people can assume they have bad intentions for doing innocent things like being friendly to kids, and their social status in society is more tied to their financial status than women

Mark987 · Answer

Honest truth. The men that have a family and are the sole provider, or do anything to make sure there kids are fed etc. Not taking anything away from Women, but no one cares what men go through. Majority of suicides are men, that suffer from mental health.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It sounds like a cliche, but it's the quiet pressures, the expectations, and the emotional rules men are taught to follow from a young age.

NathanDavis · Answer

I'll just say... it does go from the crotch, and down to the knee...

DgBootley1 · Answer

Getting older and aches and pains, ironically on the topic have absolutely no problem getting hard, but a sports injury I’m on the waiting list for surgery so the injury is really interfering with prolonged repetitive hip movement if you get me 😣

guywithafetish · Answer

Honestly, today in 2026 i would say the hardest thing about being a man is meeting an Amazing Woman to share your life with. (Great Example) UnitedStates Population 338.2 Million Females Currently On Onlyfans 210 Million

Shiprex · Answer

Expectations of being strong and noble. Being chivalrous and energetic ALL THE TIME. Being stoic and able to say "It's gonna be ok" in a way to make others believe.

Billlewis · Answer

That many, if not most, women believe that if a man falls in love with her, or treats her well, that somehow makes him weak.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nothing really. I think having a monthly reminder, bloating, getting hit on by every clown, and people thinking you slept your way up if you get a good job are far worse for the ladies than anything I can think of for me.

Anonymous · Answer

His penis (couldn’t resist 😂) Probably being forced to live up to society’s expectations of him as a man. I think gender roles are very confining unless you feel like embracing them.

Ironco · Answer

No one caring or giving a shit about you... That's 100% why we always say "I'm fine"

Spencer10 · Answer

Honestly? its not that hard. Just respect yourself and others... pretty simple.

smahala1991 · Answer

Being looked upon as always having to be the provider

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Not being gay! I love you women with all that I could ever be. But fuck if y'all aren't the most complicated creatures that ever roamed this Earth!

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I think gender is irrelevant. You make your life easy or difficult by your decisions, not your gender. I don't feel nothing is particular is "hard" for me being a man.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Trying to reach for the check after a dinner date.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Having to take a leak in the middle of the night if you wake up with a boner

Rangers · Answer

Putting up with other men when they act like children

Daytoday79 · Answer

That's tough. Being a good role model for my kids. I always think I can do better.

Dbman99 · Answer

Being an autistic man who’s never experienced love in his life at 48

permanentem · Answer

Rock hard erections. You can cut diamonds with them.

Anonymous · Answer

Always being assumed as a threat. I get it, but it still sucks.

Finchie40 · Answer

finding a loyal woman

exitseven · Answer

All the responsibility.

Cyfris · Answer

Having to be a man.

Master_Debator · Answer

probably my penis. It gets pretty hard.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I didn't notice any hard part yet

Zionne · Answer

building muscle

msc545 · Answer

Having to deal with women.

foxsquirrell · Answer

Finding a girl who loves you. lol

CubaPirate · Answer

Expectation

dinojames22 · Answer

The expectations

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