Is it ok to be friends with a guy who had a crush on me? he still compliments me , what's ur take on this, guys?

[Anonymous]

He said he moved on so...

[WonderBell99]

How do you know that he has actually moved on? It depends on whether you are comfortable being friends with him.

Does it make you uncomfortable whenever he compliments you? If so, you should let him know not to compliment you as much anymore. Some people say and think that they have moved on, but in reality, they are just fighting a losing battle by being in near proximity to you.

Every situation is complex. This isn't black and white to just answer with a simple "okay" or "no"

[Asker]

Not really uncomfortable but i wanna know if he's moved on or not cuz i don't want him to develop feelings anymore

[WonderBell99]

I read your other replies. Guy best friends do not tell their female friends that they are "horny" and need to jerk off. Distance yourself from him.

[Asker]

Yeah i should that , he dint move on is ur conclusion too?

[WonderBell99]

Yep.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I wouldn't be okay with it. But you have to feel it out if he's actually moved on or not, because people can say they moved on, but do the opposite.

[Asker]

Exactly!!! I don't know if he's just being close and tryna compliment me or he dint move on

[SnowedIn]

It is okay. Totally okay. In some ways it'll make the friendship better.

[Anonymous]

Yes it's absolutely fine but set the boundaries

[Asker]

He tells all his shit lol , he says he's horny and tells me that he'll jack off and all personal shit so? He just treats me like a homie at this point ig?

[Opinion Owner]

Aww i do the same.
If you're comfortable than send him your pic when he is horny.

[Asker]

He's just a friend 💀 dude

[Opinion Owner]

So what? Than why You're let him talk this shits with you when you're just a friend? Lol.

Accept it you like this attention

[Asker]

I asked him about it , he's like u don't judge me so I'm talking shit

[Opinion Owner]

You're allowing him to talk shit
If you're truly don't like it than ignore or block him.

Isn't it's easy?

[Asker]

I can't just leave him? The whole point of me asking this question is if he's moved on or not? If not, then I can put him at a distance , that's it

[Opinion Owner]

No he is not move on

[Asker]

Hmm... f*** it , thanks though 👍

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck girl

[Wise4myage]

Yes, why not?