A man asked to see me a second time today last night, and I said yes, let's do tomorrow but it's afternoon and he hasn't texted me - should I text?

[Anonymous]

I dont want to appear as desperate and I don't know if what I said confirmed plans, but I do like this guy and want to know if we are still meeting today. Would I look bad if I texted? shouldn't the guy text first, he did say he wanted to see me?

[Fat_Jon]

No. He is probably not texting you on purpose to find out how keen you are. If you reply first then you will be giving him control. Men do these devious tricks in order to find things out.

Just wait and see how long it takes him to make the first move.

[Asker]

Thank you @fat_jon but I dont understand, are you saying he wants to see how interested I am and you are telling me not to text to see how long he'll go without texting me? Does this mean that he will most likely text me

But if I dont text wouldn't I be sacrificing the possibility we will see each other again, would it show I am not interested and end my chances? Please let me know I am so lost

[spartan55]

Did you make plans? Like a time, a place, etc?

[Asker]

no we didn't we just said lets go on a date on Sunday

[spartan55]

That was your big mistake. If you decide on plans, nail them down BEFORE the day of.

[Asker]

you are so right

well we met and he kissed me at the end just a peck and I didn't expect it

I did have fun so should I text him or wait till he texts me?