for 6 months we were texting everyday and for the past month we’ve kinda fell off after hanging out twice. Now his responses were every few days and our texts have gotten much much much shorter like we used to talk about everything and now we don’t after hanging out. So I’ve made my responses every few days too since he has long gaps. I asked how he was and told him about my update at work cause he asked about it the last time. It’s been over a week since he’s texted and I sent the last text over a week ago too. On my fb stories I did recently post a guy but it was my cousins friend and they wanted the opinion of others and I posted it to my acc because I have more followers to answer the poll. I don’t show he viewed it but maybe he saw the thumbnail for it on fb? Or maybe he genuinely doesn’t want to talk anymore? I don’t want him to think I’m talking to another guy but at the same time, If he really wanted to, he would make the effort more or wouldn’t back down if he really wanted me. And I’m just not getting the chase from him
Should I text him again?
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If the texts declined after hanging out, maybe he realized that he’s not that interested in you. When a guy pulls away after hanging out with you, it isn’t a very good sign. If anything, if he really enjoyed his time with you, he’d want to talk with you even more.
Should you text him again? You can. You can be straightforward with how you feel and ask him if there’s anything you did to make him want to speak to you less frequently. But please, if you don’t get a response or he says he’s not interested, leave it as is and move on.
Could be anything from not being intrested in you after chilling or him thinking u was talking to other guys