When I was with a narcissist he would tell me not to talk if he couldn't make money off of what I talking about.
Anytime I tried to talk he would literally yell until there was spit foaming at the side of his mouth.
He would yell over me calling me names and bring up how broken I am. Anytime I tried to talk he would remind me that im broke and a whore for being in school, having my own individuality and visiting my family. He said if I wanted individuality then I shouldn't be in a relationship and good respectful women do everything their man says so he won't get it from other women. He said if I want to be able to speak then I need to be bringing money to the table.
He also said that I'm not supposed to be able to have thoughts or think on my own when I'm a relationship to show that I listen to my man so he can do big things for me when he gets famous. He said that I shouldn't say anything ever because he knows the rapper 50 Cent and 50 Cent gives him money and trust funds so any "street smart woman" would listen to him because of his money and trust funds so any "street smart woman" would listen to him because of his
connections so she can "get in line."
Over time he realized that I stoped talking and just went along with what he said. He complained about me not talking! When I listened to what he said to do he got upset and when I didn't listen he got upset, when I said something he got upset. No matter if listened or didn't he would get upset.
Why did he punish me for not talking if he would get upset every time I talked?
Anytime I tried to talk he would literally yell until there was spit foaming at the side of his mouth.
He would yell over me calling me names and bring up how broken I am. Anytime I tried to talk he would remind me that im broke and a whore for being in school, having my own individuality and visiting my family. He said if I wanted individuality then I shouldn't be in a relationship and good respectful women do everything their man says so he won't get it from other women. He said if I want to be able to speak then I need to be bringing money to the table.
He also said that I'm not supposed to be able to have thoughts or think on my own when I'm a relationship to show that I listen to my man so he can do big things for me when he gets famous. He said that I shouldn't say anything ever because he knows the rapper 50 Cent and 50 Cent gives him money and trust funds so any "street smart woman" would listen to him because of his money and trust funds so any "street smart woman" would listen to him because of his
connections so she can "get in line."
Over time he realized that I stoped talking and just went along with what he said. He complained about me not talking! When I listened to what he said to do he got upset and when I didn't listen he got upset, when I said something he got upset. No matter if listened or didn't he would get upset.
Why did he punish me for not talking if he would get upset every time I talked?
