What makes a girl /woman inteligent in eyes off her future partner, which will be loyal for long term, mean forever?

[n8765]

I'm 25f.

Never had a boyfriend

Just situations online, for 3 years

And I've noticed I don't attractive theost thoughtful smarter care respectful guys, which will think about me for long term

So I would like to know

On what to pay attention and on what not.

Do I feel right that men like not just the body but also the brightness, for long and short term
And how it is define

And if I don't have body and face very attractive with a lot of flaws mentally and physically and skills..

will I attract a smart manner sweet , respectful , thoughtful guy/man?

But how?

Especially me not having a degree and barely getting a simple job

Please any opinions.
Will be very welcome
Thank you

[Guy13]

There’s another intelligence besides IQ that’s attractive to men. You may can call it social intelligence and largely that feminine attributes combined with enough intelligence to not kill the gene 🧬 pool. Someone with formal etiquette trading, standards and expectations and that knows how to do and make the details work for a “power couple”.
BS rather than liberal BA would be nice.

[vhless]

I’m often told I come across as highly intelligent when talking to men that I’m dating, it comes down to a couple things.
Being quick witted and able to bat off someone else’s joke/banter and have it land well and knowing a lot of general knowledge, I tend to know bits and bobs of lots of different things that are part of my interests and being able and confident to express that in a passionate and enticing way helps a lot.

[Wade12345]

Can you carry a conversation?

Are you good at your job/career?

Are you a self-made business woman?

Do something mentally to stand out above the crowd.

Physical Attraction is just attraction, but mental attributes, like love and intelligence makes a woman have ATTENTION value, which is what is going to make a relationship work.

[HighValue]

A degree doe7mean someone is intelligent. A logical thought process and not repeatedly making the same mistakes in life shows that someone is intelligent.

[Luopio27]

The more common intrest you have, the easier it is to relate. Inteligence on matters only to one is not a joy shared by both.

[Alex8736]

Sense of humor, outgoing, and the list goes on