Why is he lurking?

[Anonymous]

So, I recently made a post about my ex. He tried to add me on Snapchat last week and i declined it. Then, my best friend, told me he recently watched her Instagram story. He does not even follow her… and she does not follow him. He has a NEW girlfriend who he has been with since August and this is his 7th one since being out of jail. It’s complicated between us. But he cut me off last April. Im just confused why is he lurking on my friend’s Instagram and trying to add me on snapchat?

[WaterIsland]

I’d be extremely careful about making posts about ex boyfriends/girlfriends. That sounds like an absolute recipe for disaster. What good can come of it? Absolutely nothing.


If my ex were to make a post about me, I’d be kinda pissed to be honest. It’s so unnecessary to take something between us and broadcast it to the world. So no wonder he is lurking. He is curious about what you’re saying about him.


The jail part is a bit strange. I wouldn’t date someone who’s seen 7 people since getting out of jail. Talk about a huge red flag.


But yeah. Definitely avoid making posts about your ex’s (or even people you’re in relationships with) on social media.

[Asker]

Sir, you do understand EVERYONE posts their buisness on this site right? Im not the only one who makes posts about their ex😂😂😂😂😂please😂everyone does the same thing on this dang app. Just stop.

[WaterIsland]

I totally assumed you made a post on Snapchat about your ex 😂. Umm my bad!!! Shouldn’t have assumed that. Sorry about that.

Most people on here have a certain level of anonymity to them. Unless he was able to figure out your post was you and he saw it here. Then disregard what I said.

If he couldn’t have figured out it was you or didn’t see your post here. Then that part of the story is completely irrelevant. And I have no idea why he’s lurking. But considering he went to jail for something, probably just more unstable behavior from him.

Sorry again that I made that assumption.

[Asker]

No. I only make posts about him on this site which he obviously is clueless about

[WaterIsland]

And that’s totally fair. Nothing wrong with that so long as he’ll never find out it’s you.

[MarkHrdman]

Its a control issue.

More then likely he wants to fuck your friend and sex chat with you on snapchat but obviously neither of them things are going to happen.

So I dont see your point because obviously youse have issues and its more then likely that he will never engage with your friend and the only way he could know that it is your friend is during your relationship, otherwise its unlikely that he would have any idea that you have had any interaction with one of your instagram friends, who his found from viewing your instagram account from thinking about you without having any interest in talking to you because of your issues which is common with any relationship.

[Alex8736]

if he shows up on your property file a restraining order and block him from social media and block his number on your phone

[Bklynbadboy12]

Why did he cut you off and it seems like he's trying to Set up a friend with benefits situation with you don't fall for it!

[Fuentes]

Tell your friend to block him and just block him too, he probs got a loose booty and maybe hiv or hepatitis from being locked up multiple times. I think dudes like to go back to prison or jail cause they secretly got a boyfriend In there

[exitseven]

As soon as you said he was in jail you lost me

[Anonymous]

does his girlfriend know? if not you and your friend should tell her

[Asker]

No. It’s not my problem to tell her.

[Asker]

She can figure out what type of person he is, on her own.

[Opinion Owner]

i highly doubt it not if we're thinking of the same jackass

[Asker]

Um we are not. Highly doubt you know him

[Opinion Owner]

the jackass is from california in his early 20's

[Opinion Owner]

dark hair tattoos

[Asker]

Your only saying that cuz im from California and im in my 20s🙄or you looked at my previous questions… you would say his name if you knew

[Asker]

Nope. Not dark hair.

[Opinion Owner]

no actually i didn't like i said it could be the same jackass i'm thinking of if the jackass's name actually starts with the letter J

[Opinion Owner]

because the jackass has been shacking up with her and she got with him in August and stopped talking to his ex in April

[Asker]

Nope😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂so wrong. His name starts with a C. Nice try good laugh buddy!

[Opinion Owner]

if it is the same person then it wouldn't surprise me after she backstabbed me and her family backstabbed me around that same time period because i was with her for years until all that shit hit the fan

[Opinion Owner]

and does the jackass smoke weed and cigarettes?

[Opinion Owner]

oh well somebody else then just the age time frame and location had me think it was somebody else

[Asker]

Nope. Not same person

[Opinion Owner]

it was around that same time frame when i got backstabbed by her and her rotten family because of her cheating again