Men: how would you like a woman to ask you out? What should they say and do?

[newgirlontheblack]

When asking you out- what would you want a woman to say and do?

[Anonymous]

It's not what she says. It's more how she says it. I'd just like her to show genuine interest. Don't talk to me like she does a 100 other guys. It's all about putting forth effort. If she doesn't want to put any forth then clearly I don't mean anything to her.

[serious]

I would never want any woman to approach me and ask me out. Even if they do, I would admire their courage and maybe even tell them that but eventually my answer will be NO.

I will refuse the woman nicely and politely.

[newgirlontheblack]

Interesting. Why?

[serious]

@newgirlontheblack

Well the reason is simple. I have always been single and my purpose is to remain single for life and for this reason I would never want any woman to approach me and ask me out and if they do then my answer will be No.

This will of course hurt a woman and I don't want that.

This answers your question.

[slatyb]

It's easy. If you know them a bit, just say "Would you like to go to for coffee / lunch / dinner?"

[Anonymous]

Probably should flirt a little, tell me her name and ask mine then find out if I’m single and if yes then maybe invite for a coffee or something

[Alex8736]

At least start up any random conversation. as in small talk 😊

[Anonymous]

Why do I get the feeling this gender Dynamic will never change