How to Ask a Woman Out?

[UmbrusNightshade]

Ladies, I need help.

There’s a woman I’m very interested in but I am horrible with women. I get all in my head and just super uncomfortable around women I am attracted to, more because I’m nervous than anything else. I’ve asked women out before but you could say I always get rejected.

This is gonna sound stupid but what ways have men you went on
a date with asked you out? And is it as simple as just saying something like, “, I think you’re interesting and would love to get to know you better. Would you like to get together over coffee or ice cream?”Being honest, just outright asking for a date seems wrong to me.

[KathrynTaylor]

Sounds perfect. Don’t get so stuck inside your own head that you end up missing more opportunities. Acting weird or aloof, scares women off. Refusing to kiss or sleep with them after several months to several years turns us off too.

[debbiedenise]

I believe that a lot of girls know that men get nervous around them. If she answers yes, that is good. If she answers no, it may be her loss.

[UmbrusNightshade]

Thank you. That’s simple but comforting. Typically I either see or hear that there’s somehow something wrong in a guy being nervous.

[debbiedenise]

Thanks for the MHO.