He said he respects me so he didn’t try to have sex with me. Does it mean he takes me seriously or not necessarily?

[Algerianprincess]

[coachTanthony]

Could mean he really likes you or just saying that because he just sees you as a friend and would never disrespect you in that way by sleeping with you.

[Algerianprincess]

He kissed me and he touched me but didn’t go as far as having sex

[coachTanthony]

Maybe he doesn't see you long term potential and doesn't want to get involved beyond just fooling around. All you can do is keep seeing him and see where it goes. I don't know the context or what you are wanting to do here so

[Algerianprincess]

Well he invited me abroad as we were talking online and looked after me, cooked for me and said he would come visit me too. But was still on dating apps and he said he won’t delete them yet as we aren’t together yet

[coachTanthony]

Is he currently long distance?

[Algerianprincess]

Yes he is. I messaged him to say I miss him and he was like oh really? I said is that a surprise? He said no but you didn’t message me so I didn’t know. I asked if he waited for me to message? He didn’t reply and just sent a snap of himself. I can’t understand him

[coachTanthony]

Doesn't matter really if he is interested he needs to pursue you in a thoughtful manner with plans of seeing you somehow in person. Otherwise it's really just a waste of time on your end.

[Algerianprincess]

Yes I only decided to go there because he said if it goes well, we can see each other more often and then I can move in with hkm

[Algerianprincess]

So I got disappointed when he didn’t want to delete the dating app

[coachTanthony]

Well that is an easy red flag that he's not interested in giving up his time or resources to pursue you. He wants someone close that he can see on a regular basis which the dating apps will provide.

[Algerianprincess]

I understand that but why would he tell me he had feelings and invite me over and introduce to everyone? And mention living together and then say otherwise?

[coachTanthony]

Because it's easy to say those things to make you feel good without any actual accountability on his end. He has an excuse you are too far away.

[Algerianprincess]

Thanks much appreciated

[Jdjfjcjj]

It means he's a chump who puts women on a pedastol

[najekim]

Waiting for you to start the motions for sex.

[boggboss]

It would be easy to lie about this

[In_Trance]

lame. he should be all over you

[Algerianprincess]

Oh no I prefer to take it slowly so it could lead to marriage

[In_Trance]

Just because you take it slowly doesn't mean it's going to lead to marriage

[LazerBean]

Not necessarily.