Anyways, I'm 23yo and my friends did a huge favor (sarcasm intended) to tell this guy I don't have any sexual experience, I still haven't even kissed a guy, thanks to my lack of trust in strangers, even if I am really interested. But you see, for the first time I feel like I could hook up with someone, I just don't have the courage to say this to him.
Anyway, there was this night, I had a few shots and I was really flirty, sending all the signals I could, smalls one of course for most people, but still flirting and HE WAS FLIRTING BACK. So my friend said "just go kiss her, you both want each other!" (she was a bit more... energetic tho haha) and he said "No, I really respect her... I couldn't".
WHAT. THE. HELL.
I mean, I like to be respected and stuff, but I also want this guy! He previously said to another friend "I won't force it, I will respect her time", which was super cute at that time, but now... lol
What does this even mean? Is he toying with me? Only said that to not openly reject me? He is not the type to not go foward when he is interested in other girls tho, I am confused.
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Most guys with any sense of decency will not make a move on a woman who is obviously intoxicated.
Think about it this way, because you were drunk he didn't see you as in control of your actions and any moves he made on you would have been without your consent.
Oh, that is the least girls can expect of guys, but this was not the last time I saw him. I mean, sure I only flirt with him when I am a bit drunk, but I give all the space to him also when I am not... I should be more straightforward it seems.