Ummmm What just happened?

[AmyMasters]

So I was having a conversation with someone I have been talking to for months and then he just says we are done! Here is the conversation.

I had messaged him telling him I was thinking about him and seeing how he was doing he asks me to show him my “tits” mind you he has been drinking. I ask why and he says nvm good night. So I ask if he is ok and he says yes he has just been drinking. I said I get it and I am not mad but surprised! I then say I shouldn’t have messaged I just miss you. Then he goes off and says we are done and I just don’t even know where to begin. I tried calling to see what he meant but he said it wasn’t a good time to talk and then texted don’t ever call me again. I am not trying to get this guy back I just want to know what I did wrong so it doesn’t happen again.

[In_Trance]

he's probably with someone else. you didn't do anything wrong

[AmyMasters]

I thought so too. Thanks for your input! You helped me earlier with this guy as well lol glad to be done.

[noohair]

Being drunk is not an excuse for acting like an ass.

[roy_ricky09]

Typical controlling manipulative tactic. You should be glad it's over now.

[AmyMasters]

Thank you Roy! I felt like I was going crazy because he kept calling me manipulative! Not during that chat but for a while.. i am sure he thought me saying “ I shouldn’t have messaged you, I just missed you” as manipulative. It just makes my head spin.

[roy_ricky09]

That's a typical narcissistic personality. When something is wrong, they blame you, when something is right, they take the credit.

[SnowedIn]

Sorry for the short response: you didn't do anything wrong. This is on him. Not you.

[Anonymous]

Who knows for certain. The question is was he really drinking. Some guys and women to will do this just to see your reaction. It goes without saying this is toxic behaviour so you didn't lose anything.

[iSensei]

You did not anything wrong lady. U two had a sex before? Or he ask for tits first time?

[AmyMasters]

No this wasn’t first time for it but it was first time when he was out at his cousins house and I found that strange and didn’t want to share because I dont know if he would have shown them so I didn’t send

[iSensei]

High percent he talks about u and want to show u to others

[AmyMasters]

I feel like he had been emotionally manipulated in the past and took my comment of “I shouldn’t have messaged you, I just missed you” as manipulation. I don’t see it as so but maybe he did I don't know..

[iSensei]

Bytheway you didn't anyting wrong.. So dont think about it

[AmyMasters]

Thank you!! I appreciate that!

[Nuthouse]

What the heck. He doesn’t sound very good for you

[AmyMasters]

For sure not!!! I am honestly in shock and wanted to make sure it wasn’t me not seeing something!

[Nuthouse]

Hun if I was you I’d probably be relieved that he wants to be done

[AmyMasters]

I am totally relieved and not going back but I don’t want to take any toxic trait into another relationship and am all for being called out for something and fixing it.

[Nuthouse]

You want to follow me so I can message you and ask you what you mean by that

[Anonymous]

You might not have done anything wrong.

[AmyMasters]

I appreciate that ☺️ I feel like he thinks me saying I shouldn’t have messaged you I just miss you as being manipulative but I just don’t see how..

[Opinion Owner]

I agree with you.