What just happened?

[Anonymous]

This guy and I have been friends for years. Towards the last 2 years he got super flirty. I didn't want to cross that threshold but he kept on pushing it. I gave in regrettably. We sexted a few times but always went back to normal conversations afterwards. Except last time. He kept saying how bad he wanted to kiss me and look into my eyes etc.. it was intense.
3 days later he tells me he has a g. f and he can't flirt with me anymore because it isn't fair to her. (Didn't even know he had a g. f, but apparently they've been together a year.. so right when he pursued me. He was with her) so I said no problem and unfriended him on everything.
Am I wrong for doing that? And why tf would he do that? I just feel like 5 years were wasted

[boggboss]

No he was in the wrong he didn't value the friendship and lasted after u then he started feeling bad for doing the wrong thing

[Asker]

Thank you, I just hate that I had to lose a friendship like that. But I realize he probably won't care about it. Just feel stupid

[boggboss]

Yeah it is pretty shitty just gotta keep a eye out for guys like him any guys only befriend girls in the chance of maybe getting into her pants later on

[Asker]

We never had real sex thankfully, he moved far away before the friendship turned into anything sexual.

But I definitely will watch out next time. Live and learn I guess

[spartan55]

Because he was never your friend, just some dude trying to bang you.

[Asker]

Damn. Alright. Thank you for your answer

[spartan55]

Sorry to put it that way, but that's what happened.

[plundo]

Well some guys just always want something. It's sad in my opinion but yeah, it feels like that.

[Asker]

That's a long time to wait for something just to fumble it in the end. But yeah very disappointed.
Ngl just going to miss the friendship but I can't be friends with someone like that.

[Avicenna]

Must be feeling guilty

[Asker]

Yes, that's what he said.
I just don't understand why he pressured me and was so forward with me until I gave In, let it go on for a year. A week ago confess his feelings for me then 3 days ago say he feels guilty because he has a girl.. like my head is spinning.
Did I make a friendship up in my head? Because I don't know about you, but I don't play with my friends feelings like that.

[In_Trance]

So it was a fake friendship

[Asker]

It didn't seem like it. How can you fake a friendship for 5 years?

[In_Trance]

Well now you know

[Asker]

You can a fake a friendship for that long?
Kudos to you my friend. I could never

[In_Trance]

Guess who could?

[Asker]

Right, got it. Thanks for your input.